Question from a viewer for today: We’re thinking about going to a lifestyle club. What am I going to expect? My nervousness and fear is that people are going to push me to do things we’re not ready yet. John MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured …
We own 4 swingers lifestyle clubs.. Here is what to expect when you visit one! Read More »
Today we answer a doozy of a question in our video. It’s a great question actually that we’ve certainly gone through and you may too. Here’s the situation: My wife and I have been married for some time and we recently opened our relationship. I was the one who brought her into this and of …
WATCH THIS before you start an open relationship (jealousy, boundaries & emotions) Read More »
You are not going to want to miss today’s podcast. John and I talk with Mike and Jill from Xperience4u. This amazing couple has been married for 26 years and in a (CNM) consensually non monogamous marriage for the last 11 years. Join us as we delve into how going from monogamy to CNM has …
Swinging Made Our Marriage Stronger – Podcast Episode #28 Read More »
The lifestyle can be quite the rollercoaster ride. One day on your elated on cloud nine and really excited about getting into the lifestyle. The next day you have anxiety about whether this was the right/proper thing to do. (I’m sure my religious upbringing had something to do with it.) So how do I explore …
Excitement and Anxiety of Being in the Open Lifestyle Read More »
Is it true that men don’t get emotionally attached after sex? Which means they’re better at open relationships than women? Interesting questions/claims posed by one of our Podcast listeners that we will be discussing! John MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special …
Whatever spectrum of the lifestyle you’re playing at, let’s say everything is sailing smoothly…until… You hit those rough waters. Maybe it’s a playdate that went wrong. Maybe it’s taking a step too far past a boundary. Maybe it’s a nasty emotion that rears its ugly head that you weren’t prepared for. So what do you …
In part 1 of our discussion on boundaries, we talked about the importance and nuances of creating them. In this part 2, we’re going to talk about the transition into re-establishing boundaries. This is where a month or two and some playdates have gone by and now it’s time to look back at what worked …
Establishing Defined Boundaries in Your Open Relationship (Part 2 of 2) Read More »
What’s the big deal about boundaries one might say? Well, it could lead to a disaster in the start of your open relationship before it even begins. Although setting boundaries may seem simple on the surface, be sure that you and your partner(s) all clearly understand the details. For example, let’s say you’re ok with …
Establishing Defined Boundaries in Your Open Relationship (Part 1 of 2) Read More »
You always hear that communication is one of the big keys to a successful relationship. But what does communication look or sound like? Today we’re going through some examples and giving you some tips on how to communicate with your partner. Listen to this episode below, Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or on your favorite podcast …
Open Relationship Communication – Podcast Episode #27 Read More »
Ever had a time where you weren’t quite “feeling it” with a new play partner? Or maybe the other way around where they weren’t too excited to be with you? So how do we navigate that to make it a better experience for everyone? Let’s talk about that today! John MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are …
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
