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Ask John & Jackie: How to be Safe Being an Open Lifestyle Newbie

My wife and I are very new to LS. Last week we had our first group play date. Unfortunately, a few days later, my wife’s vajayjay was not not her usual fresh self. She was diagnosed with Bacterial Vaginosis. I know this is common and easily curable. However, she doesn’t want to continue with LS. …

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Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 4

This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3. In today’s Part 4, we’re going to talk about playing separately versus together. Playing together would include something like having a threesome where you’re both …

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Emotional Attachment in the Swingers’ Lifestyle

Jackie MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN “This Is Life” with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, …

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