Swingers Lifestyle

How We Deal With Discrimination in Our Swingers Lifestyle

A reader asked us if we’ve ever been discriminated for our choice of boldly living the swinger lifestyle. The answer is…. YES! And you may have been too. It can be an unfortunate aspect of being openly swingers, but we take it as an opportunity to educate others about the misconceptions, why it works for …

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Ask John & Jackie: Swingers Lifestyle For Parents & Singles

Dear John & Jackie Any recommendations on how to get started in the lifestyle when you have young kids. We want to visit a club, however the closest one is an hour away. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! Newbies ===================== Dear Newbies, Unless you’re able to drop the kiddos off at the …

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Ask John & Jackie: Finding Single Women & Dealing With Fear

Dear John & Jackie, I’m a single guy, how do I find a female that would be interested in the lifestyle? ================ Dear Single guy, My first thought would be joining an adult social site. Sites like SDC.com, or Kasidie.com are just a couple of the many sites available. These sites allow you to connect …

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Swingers Lifestyle – Self Empathy and Giving Yourself a Break

Today we are with our special guest Kara, lifestyle club manager of colette Houston! And we’re having a conversation about being empathetic about yourself. How so? Often times a couple may be contemplating about getting into the swinger lifestyle and if they come up against an obstacle, they already begin to think that the lifestyle …

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How My Swinging Marriage Changed My Views About Sex And Relationships

My husband and I were recently asked how we keep our relationship special. What is it that we do to differentiate our marriage from our other encounters—if we’re going on dates, holding hands, kissing, or having sex with others, what’s left for us to share? My guttural response was, “Are you kidding me?! What’s left …

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Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 4

This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3. In today’s Part 4, we’re going to talk about playing separately versus together. Playing together would include something like having a threesome where you’re both …

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