What Can Swingers Learn From Jada & Will Smith

“You have to trust who you’re with.” These were the powerful yet seemingly obvious words of wisdom from Jada Pinkett Smith in her recent interview on The Howard Stern Show on SiriusXM when talking about...

Killing Jealousy and Fear is Easy as 1-2-3 in the Swinger Lifestyle

Someone in the swinger lifestyle recently asked me, “How do you not get jealous?” Well, sometimes I have been. Sometimes my fear becomes greater than my trust. Because to me, that’s what jealousy really is…fear!...

What is Compersion?

Relationships With Options

One of the biggest truths I learned when introduced to the swinging/open lifestyle was that relationships are about options. That traditional monogamy isn’t the only way to a healthy, loving, committed way in which to...

Six Thoughtful Ways to Show Your Partner How Much You Love Them

If your looking for some entertaining and special ways to show your partner just how important they are to you and how much you value being together, then why not show it by giving them...

Working Past Uncomfortable Feelings Through Communication

How Does Swinging Enhance My Relationship?

If someone were to ask me that question, what would my answer be? What exactly does enhance even mean? Well according to a quick Google search, it means: intensify, increase, or further improve the quality,...

How I Respond to Jealousy in My Relationship

John and I had a beautiful in depth conversation about working through jealous feelings this morning (probably because he had his “date” last night). I talked to him about the process I went through in...

30 signs YOUR relationship has hit the comfort zone

Jackie and I recently read an article on the top 30 signs of a relationship comfort zone and we made this video with our thoughts. Here’s their list: 1. Not wearing make-up 2. Not locking...

Sex Should Become Routine Not Be Routine

So I have a diary that I write in daily. It records the days activities, from the mundane (made smoothies) to the exciting (we bought a new car!) Not only do I keep track of...