“If you’re happy, I’m happy.” That’s compersion in a nutshell. If you’ve never heard the term before, you’re not alone. You won’t find it in any dictionary, and the only…
Giddy like a schoolgirl and honored at the same time for ASN Lifestyle Magazine to have chosen me as one of the top influential women in the lifestyle. It all…
From a very young age I was taught that being with girls was bad. The first time I kissed a girl was in first grade. I had become friends with…
My wife and I are very new to LS. Last week we had our first group play date. Unfortunately, a few days later, my wife’s vajayjay was not not her…
When John and Jackie Melfi invited me to be their guest at this year’s Naughty In N’awlins, an annual swingers’ convention that happens every summer in New Orleans, I was…
My husband wants to be in the lifestyle. He wants to swing with other couples together. We have done some soft swap with another couple out of the blue. Things…
Jackie MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans…
I’m an openly polyamorous woman, and whenever I talk about my way of conducting romantic and sexual relationships with people who are used to monogamy, one of the most common…
Okay, so you’re in a monogamous relationship, you love your partner, and everything is mostly awesome. Except there’s this one thing. And it’s so hard to talk about. After however…
Do you have tips/advice for single females? I have been observing for 2 years. Got to know some wonderful people. When I decided I found a couple I was attracted…
In 2007 my father died. A shocking “here one day, gone the next” kind of death and it shook me to my core. I began to think about my own…
Hi John and Jackie, I am in a relationship that is fulfilling and happy and my boyfriend and I are discussing enjoying a swinger lifestyle. I am extremely interested in…