Consensual Non-monogamous Relationships & Dealing With Shame

Shame and how it can hold us back from fully experiencing and enjoying the lifestyle… We do coaching with couples and a lot of the women openly share how shame hits them hard and becomes...

Swingers Lifestyle & Different Levels of Experience

How do you best navigate your relationship if one partner has more experience than the other? How do you go about in your relationship if your partner is on a (much) different experience level as...

How to talk about playing at swinger clubs & parties

So you’ve proudly mustered up the courage to go to a club or party for the first, started a conversation with a random stranger/couple, and you and your partner are interested in playing. Now what?...

How to talk about playing at swinger clubs & parties

So you’ve proudly mustered up the courage to go to a club or party for the first, started a conversation with a random stranger/couple, and you and your partner are interested in playing. Now what?...

We own 4 swingers lifestyle clubs.. Here is what to expect when you visit one!

Question from a viewer for today: We’re thinking about going to a lifestyle club. What am I going to expect? My nervousness and fear is that people are going to push me to do things...

WATCH THIS before you start an open relationship (jealousy, boundaries & emotions)

Today we answer a doozy of a question in our video. It’s a great question actually that we’ve certainly gone through and you may too. Here’s the situation: My wife and I have been married...

Excitement and Anxiety of Being in the Open Lifestyle

The lifestyle can be quite the rollercoaster ride. One day on your elated on cloud nine and really excited about getting into the lifestyle. The next day you have anxiety about whether this was the...

Emotional Attachments in Open Relationships

Your Open Relationship will FAIL Without This

Whatever spectrum of the lifestyle you’re playing at, let’s say everything is sailing smoothly…until… You hit those rough waters. Maybe it’s a playdate that went wrong. Maybe it’s taking a step too far past a...

Establishing Defined Boundaries in Your Open Relationship (Part 2 of 2)

In part 1 of our discussion on boundaries, we talked about the importance and nuances of creating them. In this part 2, we’re going to talk about the transition into re-establishing boundaries. This is where...