Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER. John & Jackie Melfi made this guide from their experience as owners and operators of colette lifestyle clubs to help you be as prepared as possible so that you can have an amazing time, whether you’ve never been to a lifestyle club before or are a seasoned pro. Get your FREE guide NOW!
"Finding someone you can trust to help you navigate the ins and outs of any relationship that you value is a huge decision. John & Jackie are both down-to-earth and real people. Their ability to relate their real world experience carved the path we needed to take our relationship to a level most couples will never experience. If you get the chance… find a way to let this amazing couple open your eyes to what could be if you are willing to be open up and learn." - Matt & Liz
"It’s hard to put into words what the Melfis have done for our marriage. It's not just the improvement in our sex lives that made the impact, it was the communication and shared vulnerability that not only helped our marriage, but freed us to be more confident and open with each other." - Damian & Racquelle
We are John & Jackie Melfi and we are the owners of colette lifestyle clubs and Openlove101.com. We have over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships, have coached thousands of couples, and continue to operate our lifestyle clubs every week.
Based on what we’ve seen (and experienced), we’ve put together a guide so you can know what to expect when going to a lifestyle club for the first time. Or if it's not your first rodeo, we have some expert tips in here for you too.
I (Jackie) remember my first time going to a “sex” club. Just trying to pick out my outfit for the night triggered so much fear and doubt.
Could I really pull off wearing something like this? What did this dress say about me? Was I trying too hard? Who am I kidding in these platform heels and this short dress? You’re far to refined and respectable to allow yourself such silly frivolity. Thanks ego!
I really appreciate those self defeating comments. Now I feel dumb. Now I don’t want to go. Now I’m scared of what people will think of me.
Cue the mini breakdown.
Thank goodness I had John, such a loving, understanding and patient partner. John stopped what he was doing and reassured me that everything was going to be okay, I didn’t look ridiculous…I looked beautiful and nothing was going to happen that I couldn’t handle.
Looking back on that experience, I wish I’d had some formal guide or checklist I could have followed to help prepare me for the evening. And thus, this is how the lifestyle club guide was born. Now you don't have to make the same mistakes that I did (and many new people do) when they visit a lifestyle club.
Here are some things you'll learn inside the guide:
And you know the best part?
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