How do our fears relate to our self-esteem and society’s view on the swinger lifestyle? What if your partner is with someone else? Are you afraid they will leave you? That they’re better than you and your partner will want to spend more time with them? Do those fears make you feel like you’re not …
Dear John & Jackie, Hi! I’m enjoying your videos so far. I wanted to share my story and ask some questions about the swinger lifestyle. I was raised as a Mormon, which is a fundamentalist cult-like strict faith. It is sexually shaming and suppressing unless you are married, and even then, there isn’t much openness …
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Married women in traditional monogamous relationships were curious and wanted to talk to me about the swinging lifestyle?? After writing her book “Swingers’ Lifestyle: The Questions You Are Afraid to Ask“, Jackie spoke to a group of curious married women. Here’s how that conversation went. John & Jackieopenlove101.com
This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, and Part 4. In today’s final Part 5, we’re going to talk about post analysis – just like they do in football. Huh? Yep! Just like in …
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This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3. In today’s Part 4, we’re going to talk about playing separately versus together. Playing together would include something like having a threesome where you’re both …
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This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1 and then Part 2. In today’s Part 3, we’re going to talk about what TYPE of play you’re look for. Do you want to just watch? Be watched? Threesome? Foursome? Moresome? …
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This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first video, here’s the link to Part 1. In this Part 2 video, we’re going to talk about what happens if someone starts pushing the boundaries and doesn’t quite follow the rules and how to let your partner …
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Jackie MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN “This Is Life” with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, …
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