Coming Out and Dealing with the Fear of Being Judged

  You’re into what?!? You know what you’re doing is wrong, RIGHT? Yes, that could be one of the knee jerk responses you could face if you come out as being in open relationships. Thus,...

Diversity of labels in open lifestyle

At our colette lifestyle clubs, we’re starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term “swinger” and that encompassed...

Is Sex All About Penetration?

We talk about a couple of important things in this video. We started with the popular male topic of what to do if you can’t get or stay hard (we share a few solutions), but...

Is Consensual Non-Monogamy All About Sex?

When people think Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), many of them think about the exciting and juicy non-monogamy part where you get to have sex with multiple partners. Lots of it. A lot of the time. But...

How to Find Play Partners

We had a comment/question from a couple in an open relationship where the wife is having a much easier time finding play partners than the husband, which led him to ask the question: How do...

Introducing Consensual Non-monogamy to Your Partner

Ok so you’re interested in this consensual non-monogamy thing, but how do you tell your partner about it? How do you approach the topic and introduce them to CNM without freaking them out?! Watch this...

Does Fantasizing About Someone Else Mean Cheating?

A couple asked us the other day if it’s bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad? Let’s dive into this rabbit...

Dealing With Fear in Open Relationships

The other day we did some coaching for a couple who wanted some help with their open relationship. They had finally found a third person who was interesting and attractive to both of them and...

Importance of Honesty in Open Relationships

Being Social Inside a Swingers Club

Do you get nervous going to a swingers club? Do you feel anxiety about being around other couples? Going to a swingers club doesn’t have to be stressful. Instead, it can be a fun and...