“Hard work is painful when life is devoid of purpose. But when you live for something greater than yourself and the gratification of your own ego, then hard work becomes a labor of love.” Steve Pavlina How can we help those who are interested in consensual non monogamy (CNM)? How can we offer information to …
Happy New Year everyone! Hard to believe we are welcoming in 2022. Is it just me or does time pick up speed the older you get, I mean where has the time gone? Seems like only yesterday I was sitting down to make my New Year’s resolution list for 2021. An inspiring and desire laden …
Whew! 2021 is winding down and I can honestly say that these past 12 months have been a doozy. I’ve learned more about myself and what it means to have gratitude than I could have ever imagined. Lessons that smacked me in the face and pushed me forward towards even more personal growth. Lessons that …
A Season Of Gratitude – What Are You Grateful For? Read More »
You are not going to want to miss today’s podcast. John and I talk with Mike and Jill from Xperience4u. This amazing couple has been married for 26 years and in a (CNM) consensually non monogamous marriage for the last 11 years. Join us as we delve into how going from monogamy to CNM has …
Swinging Made Our Marriage Stronger – Podcast Episode #28 Read More »
You always hear that communication is one of the big keys to a successful relationship. But what does communication look or sound like? Today we’re going through some examples and giving you some tips on how to communicate with your partner. Listen to this episode below, Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or on your favorite podcast …
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Ever had a time where you weren’t quite “feeling it” with a new play partner? Or maybe the other way around where they weren’t too excited to be with you? So how do we navigate that to make it a better experience for everyone? Let’s talk about that today! John & JackieJohn and Jackie Melfi …
We talk a lot about the deep emotional side of swinging – jealousy, fear, etc., so today we’d go the opposite direction and talk about the fun and lighter side of swinging and being in an open relationship. John & JackieJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured …
In this episode, we were guests of the wonderful Wanderlust Swingers Podcast hosted by Cate & Darrell. The swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame, so we discuss how it has changed and adapted over the years and the differences of expectations on swingers clubs, event hosts, and public facing …
Shame and the Evolution of the Swinger Lifestyle – Podcast Episode #26 Read More »
From our experience in the lifestyle, we feel that there are 3 stages or types of consensual non monogamous relationships and how your relationship can progress through all three or just comfortably stay within one. Now some questions: Do boundaries or control keep us from moving through each stage? Can we grow in the midst …
You’re into what?!? You know what you’re doing is wrong, RIGHT? Yes, that could be one of the knee jerk responses you could face if you come out as being in open relationships. Thus, it’s understandable if it’s scary to not tell anyone about your lifestyle preference. Today, John and Jackie talk about their …
Coming Out and Dealing with the Fear of Being Judged Read More »
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