Courtney

Courtney is the Marketing Director for Openlove101 and colette Clubs.

Setting Positive Boundaries in the Swinging Lifestyle

By: Jackie Melfi Definition of boundaries from Oxford language: “a line that marks the limits of an area.”   What are relationship boundaries?  A way for each individual within the relationship to acknowledge their comfort zones.    Why do we have boundaries?  In a relationship (or with anyone for that matter) being able to articulate …

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We are going to Naughty N’awlins 2024!!

  John and Jackie are going to naughty-events.com! In today’s episode, John and Jackie talk about their past experience with Naughty N’awlins and offer some helpful advice for those who are planning on attending this year! Naughty N’awlins is a 5 day/4 night “hotel takeover”, alternative lifestyle convention being held on June 26th-June 30th. It …

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The Ups and Downs of the Lifestyle: Cultivating Good Experiences

  In this episode, John and Jackie explore the concept of transforming negative experiences in the lifestyle into valuable learning opportunities. The conversation revolves around handling discomfort, setting boundaries, and fostering positive communication within the swinging community. Reflecting on past experiences, Jackie shares personal insights on the significance of being an advocate for oneself. The …

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Navigating Friendships in Open Relationships

    In this episode, John and Jackie delve into the intricacies of friendships when one person is in an open relationship. Courtney shares her experiences as the friend in an open relationship, facing both positive and negative reactions from friends in monogamous relationships. The conversation explores the dynamics, challenges, and societal perceptions surrounding open-relationships …

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Open Relationships and Religion!

  In this episode, John and Jackie respond to a viewer’s question about reconciling religious beliefs with an open relationship. John and Jackie share their personal journeys of questioning and deconstructing religious beliefs as they explored open relationships John and Jackie encourage you to embrace your authentic self, challenge societal norms, and recognize the strength …

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Navigating Uncomfortable Boundaries in Open Relationships

  In this episode, John and Jackie discuss the complexities of dealing with uncomfortable boundaries in open relationships. The episode explores various approaches to handling discomfort when partners want to explore activities that may challenge established boundaries. They touch on options such as refraining from the activity, finding ways to ease discomfort, and introducing play …

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Becoming Role Models in the Lifestyle!!

  In today’s episode,  John and Jackie explore the topic of being role models in the lifestyle. Jackie shares her personal journey into non-monogamy, emphasizing the importance of exploring sexuality with love and breaking free from societal stigmas. They discuss how being open about their experiences has allowed them to become advocates for the lifestyle, …

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How do you NOT approach couples in swinging lifestyle? 🚩

  Today, John and Jackie discuss red flags to keep in mind when you are looking to meet people in the lifestyle! From being too direct out the gate to ignoring their boundaries, there are many red flags to look out for when talking to someone. CourtneyCourtney is the Marketing Director for Openlove101 and colette …

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Why Non-Monogamy Fails

  In today’s episode, John and Jackie explore the reasons why non-monogamous relationships may fail. Listen in as they discus the crucial aspects of communication, consideration of partner’s feelings, managing expectations, and the significance of respecting boundaries. They also share personal insights and experiences, emphasizing the importance of open and honest discussions in navigating the …

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