In this episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie are joined by Jackie’s daughter, Ashley, to discuss what it was like growing up with parents in a consensually non-monogamous relationship. Ashley shares that her biggest concern wasn’t the lifestyle itself—it was whether John and Jackie were happy and if their relationship was stable. Once reassured that […]
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By John & Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101.com In part one of this series, we explored what it means to “play alone” in an open relationship — how solo experiences can help couples grow individually, gain confidence, and bring new energy back into their connection. But today, we’re flipping the perspective. Because as much as there
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By John & Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101.com When people first hear the phrase “playing alone,” it can sound intimidating—especially for couples exploring consensual non-monogamy for the first time. But for us, this concept was actually how our open relationship began. In one of our recent videos, we revisited this topic after seeing how many people
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By John & Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101.com When people hear the words “open relationship” or “swinging,” their minds often jump to the sexual side of things. And sure—sex can be a fun and exciting part of it. But what many don’t realize is that this lifestyle brings so much more than just physical pleasure. In
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101.com If there’s one ingredient that every thriving relationship shares, it’s trust. Trust is what lets us feel safe enough to open up, to be vulnerable, and to love without fear. But building it—and keeping it strong—takes daily effort. In one of our recent videos, John and I shared the first
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By John & Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101.com When most people think of Tinder, they picture singles looking for quick dates or casual encounters. But what many don’t realize is that Tinder can be a great way for people in open relationships—or anyone exploring consensual non-monogamy—to meet others who share similar interests. In one of our
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Curious about the secrets behind open relationship success? Ever thought about how boundaries and rules can transform your love life? Let’s explore it together! In this exciting episode, we chat with lifestyle coach Diana Ryan about what it takes to build trust, intimacy, and open communication in a consensual non-monogamous relationship. Whether you’re navigating swinging,
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 If you’ve ever tried meeting another couple for a hookup, you already know—it’s not as simple as it sounds. In theory, it seems straightforward: two couples, four people, shared interests, and some mutual attraction. But in reality, that equation can get complicated fast. John and I recently talked about this
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they tackle a thought-provoking question: Would they still be together if they weren’t in the swinger lifestyle? In this candid conversation, they explore how the lifestyle defines (or doesn’t define) their relationship, and what challenges they might face if their relationship model was different. 🎙️ Episode Highlights:
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 If you’ve ever been to a swingers club—or even just thought about going—you’ve probably wondered how to handle those moments when someone approaches you and you’re just not interested. It’s a question John and I get all the time, and it’s one that comes up naturally in an environment where
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
