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Common Swinger Lifestyle Questions

Some Things You'll Learn

How to get you and your partner into the lifestyle if you are brand new to swinging
How to have threesomes and moresomes
How to deal with "cheating" in the lifestyle
What are the rules and guidelines for the swinger lifestyle.

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Coaching

Do you want more out of love, and your relationship?

Do you have a desire to explore sex or love with multiple partners?
Are you curious about the swinger, open or poly relationship models?
Are you struggling with jealousy or communicating with your partner?

Do you have a desire to explore sex or love with multiple partners?
Are you curious about the swinger, open or poly relationship models?
Are you struggling with jealousy or communicating with your partner?

Do you have a desire to explore sex or love with multiple partners?
Are you curious about the swinger, open or poly relationship models?
Are you struggling with jealousy or communicating with your partner?

You don't have to do this alone. We have coached hundreds of couples and have seen amazing breakthroughs with them. Start by scheduling a consultation with John & Jackie, and achieve your relationship goals today!

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Join our private, growing community of like-mind singles and couples in open relationships

Become a member of our private community website where you can anonymously connect and chat with others in the lifestyle.
Get direct access and support from us and your burning questions answered live through our Zoom webinars.
Get exclusive access to content we don't share with the public.
Get Exclusive content such as Live Webinars and Q&As with John and Jackie, exclusive podcast content, and more!

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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER. We made this guide from our experience as owners and operators of colette lifestyle clubs to help you be as prepared as possible so that you can have an amazing time, whether you’ve never been to a lifestyle club before or are a seasoned pro. Get your FREE guide NOW!

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Private Coaching with John and Jackie

You’ve come to the right place. John and I have over 35 years combined experience in consensual non monogamy and we would love to help you and your partner create the most profound relationship EVER! John and I have done extensive research into consensual non monogamy (CNM) both personally and professionally, and have found some great tools to help navigate this incredible relationship model. If you are struggling or just curious, we are happy to share our experiences with you. We have coached hundreds of couples and have seen amazing breakthroughs with many of them.

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Their ability to relate their real world experience carved the path we needed to take our relationship to a level most couples will never experience. If you get the chance… find a way to let this amazing couple open your eyes to what could be if you are willing to be open up and learn.
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Matt & Liz
It’s hard to put into words what the Melfis have done for our marriage. It's not just the improvement in our sex lives that made the impact, it was the communication and shared vulnerability that not only helped our marriage, but freed us to be more confident and open with each other.
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Since we started openlove101.com in 2015, we have received hundreds of emails and comments from our readers. We have compiled our responses to your most burning questions from couples and singles searching for answers in the lifestyle swinger community. 

Some Things You’ll Learn:

  • How to get you and your partner into the lifestyle if you are brand new to swinging
  • How to have threesomes and moresomes
  • How to deal with "cheating" in the lifestyle
  • What are the rules and guidelines for the swinger lifestyle.
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!