Good morning Jackie!! Thank you so much for your time. I have a question. Do you become familiar with people that John dates or does John go on dates with people that you may never meet or with people that do not want to know any details about you or your relationship with John? And …
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I have a question about the lifestyle and how to know your partner is not just doing it to be with other women. My husband is really wanting me to step into it but there have been trust issues in the past. I want to make him happy and I really wish I was all …
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Hi John and Jackie, We are intrigued that you have traveled as a threesome. Can you give us some tips on how to plan and manage traveling as a threesome? We have never done it but are interested. Thanks, Threesome Intrigue ============= Dear Threesome Intrigue, First off, and I know this might sound obvious, but …
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Dear John & Jackie, I’ve been seeing someone for about 2 months. I’m new to the lifestyle scene… The most difficult part I’m struggling with is jealousy. The thought of my bf with someone else, at times is a turn on… other times I’m in tears over it. Also, I know he REALLY wants me …
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We’ve got TWO burning questions today from our readers: Question #1 Dear John & Jackie: I am new to the lifestyle and I am a unicorn. A couple has expressed wanting me to become their girlfriend and to be honest I don’t know what this entails… I am attraClubs/Traveled to both of them but what …
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My wife and I are very new to LS. Last week we had our first group play date. Unfortunately, a few days later, my wife’s vajayjay was not not her usual fresh self. She was diagnosed with BaClubs/Travelerial Vaginosis. I know this is common and easily curable. However, she doesn’t want to continue with LS. …
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My husband wants to be in the lifestyle. He wants to swing with other couples together. We have done some soft swap with another couple out of the blue. Things just kind of happened. I on the other hand am not sure about this adventure. I don’t feel our marriage is in a stable place …
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Do you have tips/advice for single females? I have been observing for 2 years. Got to know some wonderful people. When I decided I found a couple I was attraClubs/Traveled to, he wanted it, she was hesitant and it was just a bad experience all the way around. Now I’m back to being shy and …
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Hi John and Jackie, I am in a relationship that is fulfilling and happy and my boyfriend and I are discussing enjoying a swinger lifestyle. I am extremely interested in this, however, I suffer from psoriasis (a skin condition that covers my body in dry scaly patches). I am terrified that I will be rejeClubs/Traveled …
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