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Ask John & Jackie: How To Handle Jealousy As A Lifestyle Newbie

Dear John & Jackie,  I’ve been seeing someone for about 2 months. I’m new to the lifestyle scene… The most difficult part I’m struggling with is jealousy. The thought of my bf with someone else, at times is a turn on… other times I’m in tears over it.  Also, I know he REALLY wants me …

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Ask John & Jackie: Being a Unicorn Girlfriend In the Lifestyle

We’ve got TWO burning questions today from our readers: Question #1 Dear John & Jackie: I am new to the lifestyle and I am a unicorn. A couple has expressed wanting me to become their girlfriend and to be honest I don’t know what this entails… I am attraClubs/Traveled to both of them but what …

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Ask John & Jackie: How to be Safe Being an Open Lifestyle Newbie

My wife and I are very new to LS. Last week we had our first group play date. Unfortunately, a few days later, my wife’s vajayjay was not not her usual fresh self. She was diagnosed with BaClubs/Travelerial Vaginosis. I know this is common and easily curable. However, she doesn’t want to continue with LS. …

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Ask John & Jackie: Single Women and the World of Consensual Nonmonogamy

Do you have tips/advice for single females? I have been observing for 2 years. Got to know some wonderful people. When I decided I found a couple I was attraClubs/Traveled to, he wanted it, she was hesitant and it was just a bad experience all the way around. Now I’m back to being shy and …

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Ask John & Jackie: How To Deal With the Fear of Rejection

Hi John and Jackie, I am in a relationship that is fulfilling and happy and my boyfriend and I are discussing enjoying a swinger lifestyle. I am extremely interested in this, however, I suffer from psoriasis (a skin condition that covers my body in dry scaly patches). I am terrified that I will be rejeClubs/Traveled …

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