From our experience in the lifestyle, we feel that there are 3 stages or types of consensual non monogamous relationships and how your relationship can progress through all three or just comfortably stay within one. Now some questions: Do boundaries or control keep us from moving through each stage? Can we grow in the midst …
You’re into what?!? You know what you’re doing is wrong, RIGHT? Yes, that could be one of the knee jerk responses you could face if you come out as being in open relationships. Thus, it’s understandable if it’s scary to not tell anyone about your lifestyle preference. Today, John and Jackie talk about their rather …
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We all have them. That one friend we look to for inspiration and vision. For me that’s Bob Hannaford. I’ve known Bob for over 9 years. I was introduced to him by my husband John. John and Bob have worked together on a ton of projects. Each joint effort was done to provide an amazing …
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I want to talk about honesty. Okay, great topic. What about honesty? John and I talk quite extensively about the value of honesty in a relationship. We talk about how vital it is to be able to have honest communication, that without honesty neither partner will be unencumbered or free to express themselves. We say …
What happens when the fear of losing our partner keeps us from opening up a relationship? It’s easy to let the danger of allowing past relationships/history to define your current union. After all, you may have been cheated on, which leads you to believe that EVERY person will cheat. But how can we fight that …
At our colette lifestyle clubs, we’re starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term “swinger” and that encompassed practically all of us. However, these days it’s a whole lot different with many new terms as this beautiful relationship …
Good morning Jackie!! Thank you so much for your time. I have a question. Do you become familiar with people that John dates or does John go on dates with people that you may never meet or with people that do not want to know any details about you or your relationship with John? And …
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We talk about a couple of important things in this video. We started with the popular male topic of what to do if you can’t get or stay hard (we share a few solutions), but then stumble onto the discussion of “is sex all about penetration”? John & Jackieopenlove101.com
When people think Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), many of them think about the exciting and juicy non-monogamy part where you get to have sex with multiple partners. Lots of it. A lot of the time. But is that true? Is that what CNM is all about? Let’s explore and discuss that today! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
John and I recently found ourselves discussing how much we have progressed as a couple. How we’ve pushed ourselves to respond differently to issues that in the past would have produced self destructive reactions. How both of us wanted to be better for each other. We took habitual reactions and replaced them with much more …
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