David and Alex of Desirous Party and Dirty Vibes share how they started their lifestyle events company and how you can best prepare for an event. They give their advice for first-time lifestyle partygoers and how to avoid jealousy and other uncomfortable situations. John & Jackieopenlove101.com
Q&A today with our guests J and Angie from Average Swingers as they chime in and help us answer lots of lovely questions: Question #1 – I was wondering if you had advice to smooth out the intense emotions. Joy, Passion, Desire, Guilt, Exhilaration, Jealousy, ecstasy and Doubt all seem to come in such concentrated …
Intense emotions, lower sex drive and swinging relationships Read More »
The definitions of monogamy and non-monogamy might be straightforward, but how people interpret them isn’t. What counts as cheating? Are there grey areas? J and Angie from Average Swingers join us to discuss Tracey Cox’s recent Daily Mail article about what she calls ‘accidental’ cheating and how she believes woke culture is changing the rules …
CHEATING & NON-MONOGAMY with J and Angie from Average Swingers Read More »
Today we bring you another Q&A session with John and Jackie on all things open love. Tuning in, you’ll hear the answers to an array of burning questions from people living the open love lifestyle (or from those who are considering becoming a part of it). In this episode, we learn about why you don’t …
Polyamory, swapping partners, and going to swinger clubs! Read More »
Monogamy is the relationship model that is drilled into most people from a young age, and while it may work for some, there are other models that work better for others. In today’s episode, we discuss the origins of our open relationship and what we love about being consensual non-monogamists. All relationships, including ours, have …
Why do we swing? (Hint: monogamous relationships didn’t work) Read More »
More and more people are talking about attachment theory these days, but many of those conversations focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if you’re looking to create secure, happy attachments with more than one partner? Today’s guest is Jessica Fern, a psychotherapist, public speaker, trauma and relationship expert, and the author …
Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Nonmonogamy with Jessica Fern Read More »
Dear John & Jackie, Maybe this has been covered and I just haven’t found it yet, but… My partner is totally open to me being with another woman. He knows it’s been a long time fantasy of mine. He was at first offended that I would go back and forth with whether I would be …
Ask John & Jackie: Fear of sharing your partner with others Read More »
Hi guys, My wife and I always talk about having a third play partner and I’m very excited about it but she holds back when I ask her about going to a swingers club, any advice about how to convince her? Excited To Visit A Club ======== Dear Excited, The last thing you want to …
Ask John & Jackie: Convincing your partner to go to a swingers club Read More »
From our experience in the lifestyle, we feel that there are 3 stages or types of consensual non monogamous relationships and how your relationship can progress through all three or just comfortably stay within one. Now some questions: Do boundaries or control keep us from moving through each stage? Can we grow in the midst …
You’re into what?!? You know what you’re doing is wrong, RIGHT? Yes, that could be one of the knee jerk responses you could face if you come out as being in open relationships. Thus, it’s understandable if it’s scary to not tell anyone about your lifestyle preference. Today, John and Jackie talk about their rather …
Coming Out and Dealing with the Fear of Being Judged Read More »
© 2021 All rights reserved
Made with ❤
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
