The definitions of monogamy and non-monogamy might be straightforward, but how people interpret them isn’t. What counts as cheating? Are there grey areas? J and Angie from Average Swingers join us to discuss Tracey Cox’s recent Daily Mail article about what she calls ‘accidental’ cheating and how she believes woke culture is changing the rules on infidelity. We share our perspective on what counts as infidelity and highlight the importance of open, honest communication when it comes to deciding on the rules and parameters of your unique relationship. While Tracey Cox’s article refers to a common rulebook, we believe that it’s ultimately up to you and your partner what constitutes cheating, regardless of what relationship model you’re in.