What happens when the fear of losing our partner keeps us from opening up a relationship? It’s easy to let the danger of allowing past relationships/history to define your current union. After all, you may have been cheated on, which leads you to believe that EVERY person will cheat. But how can we fight that
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At our colette lifestyle clubs, we’re starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term “swinger” and that encompassed practically all of us. However, these days it’s a whole lot different with many new terms as this beautiful relationship
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Good morning Jackie!! Thank you so much for your time. I have a question. Do you become familiar with people that John dates or does John go on dates with people that you may never meet or with people that do not want to know any details about you or your relationship with John? And
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We talk about a couple of important things in this video. We started with the popular male topic of what to do if you can’t get or stay hard (we share a few solutions), but then stumble onto the discussion of “is sex all about penetration”? John & Jackieopenlove101.com
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When people think Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), many of them think about the exciting and juicy non-monogamy part where you get to have sex with multiple partners. Lots of it. A lot of the time. But is that true? Is that what CNM is all about? Let’s explore and discuss that today! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
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We had a comment/question from a couple in an open relationship where the wife is having a much easier time finding play partners than the husband, which led him to ask the question: How do I find more play partners? Let’s jump in and discuss that! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
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I have a question about the lifestyle and how to know your partner is not just doing it to be with other women. My husband is really wanting me to step into it but there have been trust issues in the past. I want to make him happy and I really wish I was all
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Ok so you’re interested in this consensual non-monogamy thing, but how do you tell your partner about it? How do you approach the topic and introduce them to CNM without freaking them out?! Watch this video (perhaps together) and discover how! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
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A couple asked us the other day if it’s bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad? Let’s dive into this rabbit hole of fantasy talk and where it could go! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
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The other day we did some coaching for a couple who wanted some help with their open relationship. They had finally found a third person who was interesting and attractive to both of them and they wanted this person to be part of their throuple. The couple was both excited about it, but as time
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
