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Kink, BDSM, Sexual Trauma, Honesty, and more! – Podcast Episode #23

We’re kicking off the New Year with some fun (and serious) discussions here. In our special interview with Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com, we dive into kink and BDSM, while also covering sexual trauma, honesty, and more! Listen to this episode below, Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or on your favorite podcast platform! John & Jackieopenlove101.com

Rules and Boundaries Part 4 of 5 – Podcast Episode #20

Ok now it’s play time, but do you do it separately or together with your partner? What situations would you want to be in the same room playing together (or separately) or playing in different rooms separately altogether? Here are some things to consider when making that decision! Listen to this episode below, Apple Podcasts, …

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Rules and Boundaries Part 3 of 5 – Podcast Episode #19

Ok so you’re ready to go out to a club or party where you have the opportunity to play. What should you do beforehand when it comes to rules and boundaries? It’s establishing what you’re comfortable with! In this episode, we talk about the gradual levels you can take with your playing from just dipping …

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Rules and Boundaries Part 2 of 5 – Podcast Episode #18

Hopefully by now in our Rules & Boundaries series that you have some created together with your partner. But what do you do if/when your boundaries get pushed or broken by a couple you’re playing with or even by your own partner? How do you let the other person know? Why is it important that …

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Rules and Boundaries Part 1 of 5 – Podcast Episode #17

One of THE MOST IMPORTANT places to start if you’re considering an open relationship is going over the rules and boundaries with your partner. If you don’t, you’re going to inevitably encounter unnecessary drama, problems, and headaches (and no one’s got time for that)! Start your lifestyle right with creating (or revisiting) rules and boundaries …

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Ask John & Jackie: How To Handle Jealousy As A Lifestyle Newbie

Dear John & Jackie,  I’ve been seeing someone for about 2 months. I’m new to the lifestyle scene… The most difficult part I’m struggling with is jealousy. The thought of my bf with someone else, at times is a turn on… other times I’m in tears over it.  Also, I know he REALLY wants me …

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