When people think Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), many of them think about the exciting and juicy non-monogamy part where you get to have sex with multiple partners. Lots of it. A lot of the time.
But is that true?
Is that what CNM is all about?
Let’s explore and discuss that today!
No it’s not all about sex and that’s what I’m having a hard time with. My partner presented the idea of opening up our relationship saying he wanted to have more sexual experiences. I felt like I could try that. I thought I was agreeing to allowing my partner to have sex with another woman. But Now I realize that it’s not just sex, it’s a whole new relationship to deal with. Not what I signed up for.