Do you get nervous going to a swingers club? Do you feel anxiety about being around other couples? Going to a swingers club doesn’t have to be stressful. Instead, it can be a fun and very social environment to hang out with you partner or even as a single. Here’s a glimpse of the social aspect of our experience when we were spending a little time just talking with people.
John and Jackie Melfi are married swingers and in an open relationship. They were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention” and are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in Dallas, New Orleans, Houston, and Austin and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com with over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples.
Well of course there’s always a little — or maybe more than a little — anxiety and nervousness the first time you try something new. It could be a swingers club, a skydiving club, a piano competition — you just have to take responsibility for your own comfort, expand your limits, but not by too much.
Even after 25 years, I still have a little tiny anticipatory anxiety before a swing party. Absolutely no way am I ever going sky diving, even though my wife did it when she was in high school.
— J.S.