Do you get nervous going to a swingers club? Do you feel anxiety about being around other couples? Going to a swingers club doesn’t have to be stressful. Instead, it can be a fun and very social environment to hang out with you partner or even as a single. Here’s a glimpse of the social aspect of our experience when we were spending a little time just talking with people.
John and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN “This Is Life” with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, Dallas, Houston, and Austin. With over 20 years of combined experience, this powerhouse couple coaches thousands of singles and couples through their award winning blog Openlove101.com.
Well of course there’s always a little — or maybe more than a little — anxiety and nervousness the first time you try something new. It could be a swingers club, a skydiving club, a piano competition — you just have to take responsibility for your own comfort, expand your limits, but not by too much.
Even after 25 years, I still have a little tiny anticipatory anxiety before a swing party. Absolutely no way am I ever going sky diving, even though my wife did it when she was in high school.
— J.S.
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