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2 thoughts on “Threesomes 101”
Carl
Recently I have heard a number of different people comment that 3somes are swinging. Swinging is about multiples of 2 and that 3somes are an outgrowth of the internet creating easier access and clubs moving into alignment with that.
Interested in your thoughts.
FYI my wife of almost 27 and I started out about 16
months ago (a story for another time) playing separately and are now exploring couples with couples.
Loved your videos. The wife and I have matured a bit and are no longer active in the lifestyle but we have had incredible experiences. We might add a couple of comments that might work as suggestions to new(er) couples:
– So that we know we are comfortable with the other person, be it another man, another woman, or another couple, we have agreed that if either one of us feels uncomfortable or for whatever reason we get uncomfortable vibes, then either one of us has absolute veto power over the event. If (for whatever reason) I feel something isn’t right then a just have to tell her no. That’s it. No argument, no discussion, not hurt feelings. Same with her, she has that same power. We’ve done it several times and it works for us.
– Almost always when we are having sex with someone else, we are somehow touching. She feels more comfortable and reassured that I am ok with what’s going on. It might be touching feet or toes, holding hands, etc. That way we both know that we are both into what’s happening. That also means we do not do separate rooms. This is for the fun for both of us and we both want to share it together.
You mention that when you get home that you often make love again. We do every time! It’s such a turn-on to see her satisfied that I can’t control it and we have great “sex after sex” evenings.
Again, thanks for the videos.
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
Recently I have heard a number of different people comment that 3somes are swinging. Swinging is about multiples of 2 and that 3somes are an outgrowth of the internet creating easier access and clubs moving into alignment with that.
Interested in your thoughts.
FYI my wife of almost 27 and I started out about 16
months ago (a story for another time) playing separately and are now exploring couples with couples.
Loved your videos. The wife and I have matured a bit and are no longer active in the lifestyle but we have had incredible experiences. We might add a couple of comments that might work as suggestions to new(er) couples:
– So that we know we are comfortable with the other person, be it another man, another woman, or another couple, we have agreed that if either one of us feels uncomfortable or for whatever reason we get uncomfortable vibes, then either one of us has absolute veto power over the event. If (for whatever reason) I feel something isn’t right then a just have to tell her no. That’s it. No argument, no discussion, not hurt feelings. Same with her, she has that same power. We’ve done it several times and it works for us.
– Almost always when we are having sex with someone else, we are somehow touching. She feels more comfortable and reassured that I am ok with what’s going on. It might be touching feet or toes, holding hands, etc. That way we both know that we are both into what’s happening. That also means we do not do separate rooms. This is for the fun for both of us and we both want to share it together.
You mention that when you get home that you often make love again. We do every time! It’s such a turn-on to see her satisfied that I can’t control it and we have great “sex after sex” evenings.
Again, thanks for the videos.