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Real & Raw Emotions in Open Relationships- 5 Emotional Triggers

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they tackle a provocative question: Is it possible to experience jealousy while maintaining a healthy non-monogamous relationship? The answer might surprise you! Drawing from their 20+ years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie break down the complex emotions that hide […]

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Finding Joy in Your Partner’s Happiness: Understanding Compersion

By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 When most people think about love, they think about exclusivity—being the one and only source of happiness for their partner. It’s what most of us are taught growing up: that real love means possession, that true connection means “you complete me.” But what if love could mean something broader, freer,

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From Curious to Confident: The Evolution of a Lifestyle Couple | Open Love 101 Podcast

Ever wondered why open relationships work differently for everyone? ​ In our latest podcast episode of OpenLove101, hosts John and Jackie Melfi dive into a fascinating discussion about boundaries versus rules in consensual non-monogamous relationships. Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they discuss the journey from curiosity to confidence in open relationships and the

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Turning Jealousy into Growth: How to Communicate and Connect Through It

By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 Jealousy—it’s a word that can make almost anyone flinch. It’s uncomfortable, it’s messy, and it’s something most of us wish we could avoid. But what if jealousy wasn’t something to fear or suppress? What if, instead, it could become one of the most powerful tools for connection in your relationship?

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Our Rules vs. Your Rules: Why Every Open Relationship Is Unique

Ever wondered why open relationships work differently for everyone? ​ In our latest podcast episode of Open Love 101, hosts John and Jackie Melfi dive into a fascinating discussion about boundaries versus rules in consensual non-monogamous relationships. ​ Here’s what you’ll discover: ​ Why there’s no standard rulebook for the swinging lifestyle ​ The crucial

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How to Talk to Your Partner About Visiting a Swingers Club

By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 If you’ve ever thought about visiting a swingers club but aren’t sure how to bring it up to your partner—you’re not alone. It’s one of the most common questions John and I get, especially around times like Mardi Gras in New Orleans when curiosity about the lifestyle peaks. The truth

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11 Years of Strength: Built on Love, Growth, and Commitment

By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 Did you know when it comes to anniversaries, year 11 is symbolized as the year of strength with an emphasis on durability? Just like a marriage, Openlove101 has proven itself strong through its first decade. Not only have John and I put our heart and soul into providing content weekly

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The Truth About Swinging: It’s Not What You Think!

Are you curious about what happens when couples step outside the traditional relationship “rulebook”? In our latest episode of the Open Love 101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi—the force behind colette Swingers Clubs—discuss how they’ve taken an unconventional path in their consensual non-monogamous relationship. What you’ll discover: Why being “out and proud” about their

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How Single Men Can Succeed in the Swinging Lifestyle

By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 There’s something electric about Mardi Gras in New Orleans—the laughter, the color, the music spilling through the streets. And in the middle of all that energy, John and I found ourselves talking about something that often sparks curiosity (and sometimes confusion): how single men can thrive in the swinging lifestyle.

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