By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 Jealousy—it’s a word that can make almost anyone flinch. It’s uncomfortable, it’s messy, and it’s something most of us wish we could avoid. But what if jealousy wasn’t something to fear or suppress? What if, instead, it could become one of the most powerful tools for connection in your relationship? […]
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Ever wondered why open relationships work differently for everyone? In our latest podcast episode of Open Love 101, hosts John and Jackie Melfi dive into a fascinating discussion about boundaries versus rules in consensual non-monogamous relationships. Here’s what you’ll discover: Why there’s no standard rulebook for the swinging lifestyle The crucial
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 If you’ve ever thought about visiting a swingers club but aren’t sure how to bring it up to your partner—you’re not alone. It’s one of the most common questions John and I get, especially around times like Mardi Gras in New Orleans when curiosity about the lifestyle peaks. The truth
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Have you ever wondered what happens when you challenge the conventional boundaries of love and relationships? In our latest OpenLove101 podcast episode, hosts John and Jackie Melfi share a remarkably candid conversation about a question many find uncomfortable: “When did I realize I was okay watching my partner with someone else?” What you’ll discover in
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 Did you know when it comes to anniversaries, year 11 is symbolized as the year of strength with an emphasis on durability? Just like a marriage, Openlove101 has proven itself strong through its first decade. Not only have John and I put our heart and soul into providing content weekly
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Are you curious about what happens when couples step outside the traditional relationship “rulebook”? In our latest episode of the Open Love 101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi—the force behind colette Swingers Clubs—discuss how they’ve taken an unconventional path in their consensual non-monogamous relationship. What you’ll discover: Why being “out and proud” about their
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 There’s something electric about Mardi Gras in New Orleans—the laughter, the color, the music spilling through the streets. And in the middle of all that energy, John and I found ourselves talking about something that often sparks curiosity (and sometimes confusion): how single men can thrive in the swinging lifestyle.
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they explore the often overlooked non-sexual benefits of consensual non-monogamous relationships! After receiving feedback that a previous video focused too much on the sexual aspects, they dedicate this episode to discussing how open relationships have strengthened their bond beyond the bedroom. Discover how open communication, deep trust,
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In this enlightening episode of the OpenLove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi address a thought-provoking question from a viewer about managing emotions as an external play partner in an open relationship. With their 20+ years of combined experience in open relationships, they offer valuable insights on maintaining boundaries while acknowledging natural human emotions. The
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog OpenLove101.com, as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie tackle the judgmental statements and questions they hear repeatedly. In this episode,
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
