Are you curious about what happens when couples step outside the traditional relationship “rulebook”? In our latest episode of the Open Love 101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi—the force behind colette Swingers Clubs—discuss how they’ve taken an unconventional path in their consensual non-monogamous relationship. What you’ll discover: Why being “out and proud” about their […]
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 There’s something electric about Mardi Gras in New Orleans—the laughter, the color, the music spilling through the streets. And in the middle of all that energy, John and I found ourselves talking about something that often sparks curiosity (and sometimes confusion): how single men can thrive in the swinging lifestyle.
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they explore the often overlooked non-sexual benefits of consensual non-monogamous relationships! After receiving feedback that a previous video focused too much on the sexual aspects, they dedicate this episode to discussing how open relationships have strengthened their bond beyond the bedroom. Discover how open communication, deep trust,
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In this enlightening episode of the OpenLove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi address a thought-provoking question from a viewer about managing emotions as an external play partner in an open relationship. With their 20+ years of combined experience in open relationships, they offer valuable insights on maintaining boundaries while acknowledging natural human emotions. The
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi, the force behind colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning blog OpenLove101.com, as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy. With over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples, John and Jackie tackle the judgmental statements and questions they hear repeatedly. In this episode,
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How do you set healthy boundaries in a swinger or open relationship? In this video, John and Jackie from OpenLove101.com share practical advice for navigating boundaries—especially for newcomers exploring the lifestyle. They discuss why observing before participating can be helpful, how boundaries should evolve over time, and the importance of not using them to control
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 If you’ve ever heard the word “swinger” and immediately pictured a 1970s couple in a shag-carpeted living room wearing gold chains and open shirts—you’re not alone. That’s the image so many of us grew up with, thanks to movies and pop culture. But the truth is, swinging today looks
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 One of the things I love about traveling to lifestyle resorts like Hedonism 2 in Jamaica is how much you can learn just by observing. People from all over the world come together in one place, bringing with them different perspectives, styles, and expressions of sensuality. On our most recent
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi from openlove101.com as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy and the stigmas they face as a swinger couple. In this enlightening conversation, they address the funny and sometimes frustrating questions they receive from “vanilla” friends, from concerns about hitting on partners to fears of association. The Melfis share
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 Every relationship goes through phases — that early spark of excitement, the curiosity, and eventually, the feeling of being at ease. But how do you really know when you’ve reached that “comfort zone” with your partner? An article from the Daily Mail recently shared what researchers called the top 30
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
