By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my journey through open relationships is the difference between boundaries and rules. While these two words often get used interchangeably, the truth is they create very different dynamics in a relationship. Understanding the distinction can mean the difference between feeling controlled […]
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the dynamics of opposite personalities in consensual non-monogamy and swinging relationships. In this candid discussion, the couple explores how their own introvert-extrovert dynamic plays out in their relationship and at their famous colette Swingers Clubs. With over twenty years of combined experience in open
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by: Jackie Melfi When people hear the word swinging, the focus almost always goes straight to sex. But the truth is, there’s so much more to this lifestyle than what happens behind closed doors. The non-sexual side of swinging has given John and I some of the most meaningful, rewarding, and life-changing experiences of our
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they welcome their marketing guru Courtney on camera for the first time to discuss common misconceptions about swingers clubs. With Courtney providing a monogamous perspective on the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights for both newcomers and those curious about what really happens at colette Swingers Clubs.
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi in this fun and revealing episode where they play “This or That: Lifestyle Edition”! The couple behind Colette Swingers Clubs and the award-winning openlove101.com blog share their preferences on various aspects of open relationships and swinging. In this candid discussion, John and Jackie answer questions about full
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 One of the most common questions people ask me about open relationships is this: Do lifestyle couples cheat less than monogamous couples? It’s a fair question, because from the outside, non-monogamy can look like blurred lines and temptation. But in reality, the foundation of consensual non-monogamy is very different from
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John and Jackie from OpenLove101 delve into the challenges of embracing an open relationship, focusing on managing feelings of jealousy, fear, and control. They share personal anecdotes, practical strategies, and insights into the emotional growth required to find comfort and joy in this lifestyle. This episode is packed with actionable tips for anyone
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Exploring Relationship Models: Insights from Dr. Alyssa Webb-McCune In today’s episode of the Openlove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi engage with Dr. Alyssa Webb-McCune, a licensed professional counselor who specializes in relationship dynamics, including open relationships and consensual non-monogamy. The conversation delves into various relationship models, highlighting the underlying psychology and how
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John and Jackie from OpenLove101 tackle common stigmas surrounding open relationships and consensual non-monogamy. They dive deep into misconceptions about STDs, cheating, relationship failure, and love for your partner while addressing the societal and religious biases that fuel these narratives. A bonus stigma at the end offers an unexpected twist. Join this candid
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In this deeply personal episode, John shares his unique origin story, exploring the influences that shaped his open-minded approach to relationships and sexuality. From his early years navigating societal norms to his transformative experiences in sobriety and therapy, John reflects on how honesty and personal growth have empowered him to embrace a non-monogamous lifestyle.
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
