Author name: Jackie

Courtney is the Marketing Director for Openlove101 and colette Clubs.

The Dance of Differences: Making Non-Monogamy Work for Every Personality Type

  Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the dynamics of opposite personalities in consensual non-monogamy and swinging relationships. In this candid discussion, the couple explores how their own introvert-extrovert dynamic plays out in their relationship and at their famous colette Swingers Clubs. With over twenty years of combined experience in open […]

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Beyond the Myth: Insider Perspectives on the Swinger Lifestyle with Courtney

  Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they welcome their marketing guru Courtney on camera for the first time to discuss common misconceptions about swingers clubs. With Courtney providing a monogamous perspective on the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights for both newcomers and those curious about what really happens at colette Swingers Clubs.

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Do Lifestyle Couples Cheat Less?

By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 One of the most common questions people ask me about open relationships is this: Do lifestyle couples cheat less than monogamous couples? It’s a fair question, because from the outside, non-monogamy can look like blurred lines and temptation. But in reality, the foundation of consensual non-monogamy is very different from

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The Hidden Truth About Partner Jealousy I Finally Discovered.

  John and Jackie from OpenLove101 delve into the challenges of embracing an open relationship, focusing on managing feelings of jealousy, fear, and control. They share personal anecdotes, practical strategies, and insights into the emotional growth required to find comfort and joy in this lifestyle.   This episode is packed with actionable tips for anyone

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The Psychology of Open Relationships: Insights from a Sex Therapist

  Exploring Relationship Models: Insights from Dr. Alyssa Webb-McCune   In today’s episode of the Openlove101 podcast, hosts John and Jackie Melfi engage with Dr. Alyssa Webb-McCune, a licensed professional counselor who specializes in relationship dynamics, including open relationships and consensual non-monogamy. The conversation delves into various relationship models, highlighting the underlying psychology and how

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5 Brutal Myths About Open Relationships DEBUNKED 🔍

  John and Jackie from OpenLove101 tackle common stigmas surrounding open relationships and consensual non-monogamy. They dive deep into misconceptions about STDs, cheating, relationship failure, and love for your partner while addressing the societal and religious biases that fuel these narratives.   A bonus stigma at the end offers an unexpected twist. Join this candid

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The Truth About Non-Monogamy: My 40-Year Journey

  In this deeply personal episode, John shares his unique origin story, exploring the influences that shaped his open-minded approach to relationships and sexuality. From his early years navigating societal norms to his transformative experiences in sobriety and therapy, John reflects on how honesty and personal growth have empowered him to embrace a non-monogamous lifestyle.

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Our First Lifestyle Experience: Raw and Unfiltered 🔥

  John and Jackie from OpenLove101 share personal anecdotes from their journey in the lifestyle, reflecting on memorable moments, lessons learned, and the dynamics of playing separately and together.   They discuss the importance of trust, communication, and mutual support while navigating open relationships. From exhilarating firsts to cringeworthy moments, this episode offers an intimate

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