By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 Every relationship goes through phases — that early spark of excitement, the curiosity, and eventually, the feeling of being at ease. But how do you really know when you’ve reached that “comfort zone” with your partner? An article from the Daily Mail recently shared what researchers called the top 30
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In this playful and eye-opening episode, John and Jackie dive into the world of fantasy roleplay — a powerful tool for connection, communication, and confidence within relationships. Whether you’re new to consensual non-monogamy or simply looking to spice up your intimacy, roleplay offers a safe, creative space to explore fantasies together. From costumes and card
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 Open relationships can be incredibly rewarding, but they aren’t without challenges. Just like in any relationship, there are moments when mistakes happen—when a boundary gets crossed, or when one partner feels uncomfortable but struggles to say it out loud. What I’ve learned over the years is that these missteps don’t
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 When it comes to relationships, opposites attract—or at least that’s what people say. But how does this dynamic work in non-monogamy, especially in the swinging lifestyle where social energy and communication play such a huge role? On a recent episode of the OpenLove101 Podcast, John and I explored this topic
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 One of the most beautiful aspects of the lifestyle community is the way it continues to evolve. Every year, more people are discovering that love, intimacy, and connection don’t have to fit into one narrow box. And as our community grows, so does the need for safe, inclusive spaces where
Boundaries vs Rules: Why Language Matters in Relationships | Open Love 101 Podcast In this insightful episode, hosts John and Jackie dive into the important distinction between boundaries and rules in relationships, especially within consensual non-monogamy. They share their personal experiences and wisdom from over 20 years in open relationships to help couples navigate these
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By Jackie Melfi | OpenLove101 One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my journey through open relationships is the difference between boundaries and rules. While these two words often get used interchangeably, the truth is they create very different dynamics in a relationship. Understanding the distinction can mean the difference between feeling controlled
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they dive into the dynamics of opposite personalities in consensual non-monogamy and swinging relationships. In this candid discussion, the couple explores how their own introvert-extrovert dynamic plays out in their relationship and at their famous colette Swingers Clubs. With over twenty years of combined experience in open
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by: Jackie Melfi When people hear the word swinging, the focus almost always goes straight to sex. But the truth is, there’s so much more to this lifestyle than what happens behind closed doors. The non-sexual side of swinging has given John and I some of the most meaningful, rewarding, and life-changing experiences of our
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Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi as they welcome their marketing guru Courtney on camera for the first time to discuss common misconceptions about swingers clubs. With Courtney providing a monogamous perspective on the lifestyle, this episode offers valuable insights for both newcomers and those curious about what really happens at colette Swingers Clubs.
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
