Jackie Melfi

John and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report "Getting Naughty In N'awlins", Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN "This Is Life" with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, Dallas, Houston, and Austin. With over 20 years of combined experience, this powerhouse couple coaches thousands of singles and couples through their award winning blog Openlove101.com.

When The Pain Of Staying The Same Is Greater Than The Pain Of Change: Tools I Adopted To Bring About Change

“We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are.” Alright so you’ve come up against an obstacle in life and you’ve decided you no longer want to keep hitting your head against the brick wall. It’s just too painful to remain wrapped up in the same old worn out coping skills. They are …

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10 Ways You Can Actually Make an Open Relationship Work

So, you are interested in taking the path that leads to an open relationship. Congratulations! While this path is exciting and erotic, it can also be a little overwhelming. Where to start? How to start? How to have that conversation? Why do we want to take this path? What about roadblocks? Questions, questions, questions! As …

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Jealousy & Problems: Are we asking for these when dating multiple people?

We recently received the following comment on one of our YouTube videos: “Ok face your fear I get that however when you are dealing with human emotions you can never know how someone else will react. You could very well be destroying your relationship, but at least I’m not scared. That’s the problem I have …

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Emotional Attachment in the Swingers’ Lifestyle

Jackie MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN “This Is Life” with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, …

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