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Finding a Man for My Wife’s Swinger Fantasy

By July 5, 2016 October 2nd, 2019 Swing Lifestyle Articles

It was just a normal Sunday like any other Sunday. I was feeling horny and wanted to do something a little different from the normal routine. I wanted to do something to make this Sunday a memorable one for Jackie. I decided a threesome with another guy would be fun, but what would make it really interesting is if I could surprise Jackie with someone new—a stranger.

There are various ways to go about finding someone. One of my favorites is craigslist. Jackie and I were sitting on the couch drinking coffee and having our morning discussion about various topics in the news, the great time we had at the club the night before and article subjects we were considering writing about.

Unbeknownst to her, I was scanning the craigslist personals…casual encounters…M4MF. There are many men looking to hook-up with couples there, and most of them are real people. If you want to find a woman to hook-up with, you have to wade through all of the fake ads trying to get you to buy ID verification memberships or lead you to porn sites. But not so much with guys.

I found a few prospects looking to hook-up that day. Most have pretty good pics and short bios. I chose a few and sent them emails with an obscured picture of my sexy wife. They all responded and were up for the task. All of this was going on while Jackie was sitting five feet away from me showing me pictures of houses for sale on Zillow.

I narrowed it down to a guy who seemed well mannered and experienced with threesomes. Experience can be important. Sometimes guys who’ve never been with a swinger couple before get nervous. They’ll ask a lot of questions leading up to the encounter and then might chicken out before you even meet them, or they might have anxiety in the heat of the moment, which can be awkward.

I chose Mr. X. We corresponded via email for a few minutes. I felt that he was safe and gave him my number so we could text. It was 2:22 in the afternoon when we started texting, deciding on the particulars.

He sent me another picture and I could tell that Jackie would probably like him…his looks anyway. The plan was for me to get Jackie in the bedroom and start making love to her. While we were in the middle of being passionate, Mr X would let himself in through the unlocked door, quietly make his way into the bedroom and join in. Timing was important here. If he arrived early, it wouldn’t have the same effect; if he showed up late, well, I guess we could talk for awhile and then get going again. For my fantasy to come true though, he would need to show up while we were getting hot and heavy.

At 2:26 I texted our address and 20 minutes later he responded that he was getting ready. I let him know the door was unlocked, to come in, turn right and walk into the bedroom. I thought he would arrive pretty soon, so I started fooling around with Jackie and let Mr. X know. At 2:51 he texted, “Do me a favor, hang something on the doorknob so I know it’s you. Walking into a house for the first time I want to make sure it’s the right one.”

What a great idea! When my phone alerted me to his text, I told Jackie it was work related so I could answer it. Normally I leave my phone off or ignore it when we are making love, but I needed to make sure Mr. X didn’t have issues finding our place. I gave her an excuse to get up and grabbed a souvenir from Cuba, a Che Guevara/Cuban flag that normally is hung on the rear view mirrors of Cuban cars. I hung it on the door knob and ran back to the bedroom.

At 3:00 I texted him, “On the way?” I was getting nervous. He said he was walking out the door. Thirty minutes went by. I was going nice and slow, taking my time with Jackie, but starting to get a little anxious that he wasn’t going to show up. And then at 3:40 he walked into the bedroom and started caressing Jackie.

The moment of truth. Is she going to freak out? Give me dirty looks? Not like him? Or will she enjoy the moment?

It turned out even better than I expected!

They got along great…we all did. He and I had a great time making Jackie the center of attention. We fooled around for a couple of hours, and he and Jackie spent some time getting to know each other better. It’s always nice when plans turn out the way you imagine. I’m looking forward to making this type of Sunday the “normal routine”!

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11 Comments

  • FLUFFY says:

    SOUND LIKE YOU WERE THE WINNER IN ALL OF THIS. I HOPE I CAN PULL SOMETHING LIKE THIS OFF FOR ME AND MINE. GOOD LUCK IN THE FUTURE.

  • Phil says:

    The lucky SOB…

  • Cem says:

    like you guys take care of yourself, and hope to seing you as my guest in Turkey

  • Rex says:

    Probability of this scenario is so low

  • Roxi says:

    You are the sweetest man! Jackie is a lucky woman

  • Jean de la Durantaye says:

    Love the idea, and best part is getting out of our comfort zone. Going to the list now!

    If ever your both in the Montreal region I am definitely up to the task! LOL

    Thank you for your site and blog love them

    Jean

  • Marc says:

    Hi John
    I always enjoy your articles and I was eagerly anticipating a much more detailed description of the encounter as I was reading your story. When I read things like this I inject images of me and my gorgeous wife in the same situation and it’s extremely erotic for us. Is there any way you could write more with a moment by moment sexy narrative from the second he walked through your bedroom door? I’ll bet all of us would be on the edge of our seats! (or is that too private, in which case I apologize for my lack of discretion).
    I have noticed that a very large percentage of profile videos cut out the initial meeting, sexy movements and walking, flirting, undressing each other and foreplay and go straight to the sex. I usually stop watching at that point because I enjoy the images in my mind of my wife in the same encounter and the buildup is far more erotic for me than the actual intercourse.
    Any thoughts?

  • Dwain says:

    Though I personally have taken much more time in ‘screening’ the additional male(s) for surprise scenes and sessions like yours John, e.g. meeting in person 2-3 times first for safety reasons, it is good to read that yours and Jackie’s experience was good/great as well as fortunate considering Craigslist and other websites. Well done you two!!! 🙂

  • MoTheMan says:

    Woohoo! What a great story… What a great time!
    I really enjoyed reading how it turned out.

  • Dan says:

    Since Craigslist has removed its personals section where do you look now? I don’t like the idea of spending $20/month on a site that likely has a lot of fake profiles and bots. Any recommendations?

    • Jackie Melfi says:

      Hi Dan,

      A quick google search for adult social sites will put you in touch with several different sites geared towards those who desire a more open relationship. What is great about so many of these sites is the vetting. You will find countless couples and singles who have been verified as real life couples or singles. Even though most swinger sites are nation wide, you will find some more prominent in certain regions. We do advertise a few different sites on the openlove101 page as well. Visiting with fellow swingers can also help in finding a site that works for you. Good luck.

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