Ever had one of those things you just started doing for one reason or another and didn’t think much of it? And then one day all of a sudden it turns into this incredible “thing” that you don’t know what you’d do without it? Maybe it was that day you decided to say hello (or …
Today we will be doing something a little different in our video. I (Jackie Melfi) will be doing a short interview with John Melfi, owner of colette clubs in Dallas, Houston, NOLA, and Austin. Part of how Openlove101 was started was due to being a byproduct of colette, so we’ll be exploring some of the …
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One of our lovely commenters on YouTube asked us this curious question: Being in the lifestyle, do I have to give blowjobs? It may seem like a peculiar question at first, but there’s some background and context to it that will make sense after you hear it, so check out the video! John & JackieJohn …
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Ahh yes good old resentment. I’m sure you’ve encountered this at some point in life and possibly in your relationship as well. One of the unfortunate consequences of holding onto resentment is that it blocks you from moving forward and growing – both in your life and relationship. So what do you do when this …
Have you ever started a conversation about your relationship in a civil and cordial manner… And then things quickly took a turn for the worst and escalated to the point of anger and maybe bad words? Well, you’re not alone because we’ve had those types of “conversations” before. So how do you navigate through that? …
Shame and how it can hold us back from fully experiencing and enjoying the lifestyle… We do coaching with couples and a lot of the women openly share how shame hits them hard and becomes quite debilitating in the lifestyle journey. We want to express ourselves and feel authentic to who we are, but we …
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How do you best navigate your relationship if one partner has more experience than the other? How do you go about in your relationship if your partner is on a (much) different experience level as you? John & JackieJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC …
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So you’ve proudly mustered up the courage to go to a club or party for the first, started a conversation with a random stranger/couple, and you and your partner are interested in playing. Now what? We’ve had a couple of guest speakers at our webinars talk about this subject and now it’s our turn! 🙂 …
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So you’ve proudly mustered up the courage to go to a club or party for the first, started a conversation with a random stranger/couple, and you and your partner are interested in playing. Now what? We’ve had a couple of guest speakers at our webinars talk about this subject and now it’s our turn! 🙂 …
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Question from a viewer for today: We’re thinking about going to a lifestyle club. What am I going to expect? My nervousness and fear is that people are going to push me to do things we’re not ready yet. John & JackieJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been …
We own 4 swingers lifestyle clubs.. Here is what to expect when you visit one! Read More »
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
