John & Jackie

John and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report "Getting Naughty In N'awlins", Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN "This Is Life" with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, Dallas, Houston, and Austin. With over 20 years of combined experience, this powerhouse couple coaches thousands of singles and couples through their award winning blog

Open Relationship Communication – Podcast Episode #27

You always hear that communication is one of the big keys to a successful relationship. But what does communication look or sound like? Today we’re going through some examples and giving you some tips on how to communicate with your partner. Listen to this episode below, Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or on your favorite podcast …

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Shame and the Evolution of the Swinger Lifestyle – Podcast Episode #26

In this episode, we were guests of the wonderful Wanderlust Swingers Podcast hosted by Cate & Darrell. The swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame, so we discuss how it has changed and adapted over the years and the differences of expectations on swingers clubs, event hosts, and public facing …

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