We talk about a couple of important things in this video. We started with the popular male topic of what to do if you can’t get or stay hard (we…
When people think Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), many of them think about the exciting and juicy non-monogamy part where you get to have sex with multiple partners. Lots of it. A…
We had a comment/question from a couple in an open relationship where the wife is having a much easier time finding play partners than the husband, which led him to…
Ok so you’re interested in this consensual non-monogamy thing, but how do you tell your partner about it? How do you approach the topic and introduce them to CNM without…
A couple asked us the other day if it’s bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad?…
The other day we did some coaching for a couple who wanted some help with their open relationship. They had finally found a third person who was interesting and attractive…
We’re kicking off the New Year with some fun (and serious) discussions here. In our special interview with Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com, we dive into kink and BDSM, while…
Fear is an inevitable part of life and the lifestyle, so what can we do to fight fear in our relationships? It’s a pretty simple solution, but takes a bit…
John & JackieJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New…
We’re at the end of the series and by now you’ve set your boundaries before going out, went on your date or to your party/club, and now it’s all over….
Ok now it’s play time, but do you do it separately or together with your partner? What situations would you want to be in the same room playing together (or…
Ok so you’re ready to go out to a club or party where you have the opportunity to play. What should you do beforehand when it comes to rules and…