John & Jackie

John and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report "Getting Naughty In N'awlins", Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN "This Is Life" with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, Dallas, Houston, and Austin. With over 20 years of combined experience, this powerhouse couple coaches thousands of singles and couples through their award winning blog Openlove101.com.

Swinging is Fun

We talk a lot about the deep emotional side of swinging – jealousy, fear, etc., so today we’d go the opposite direction and talk about the fun and lighter side of swinging and being in an open relationship. John & JackieJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured …

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Shame and the Evolution of the Swinger Lifestyle – Podcast Episode #26

In this episode, we were guests of the wonderful Wanderlust Swingers Podcast hosted by Cate & Darrell. The swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame, so we discuss how it has changed and adapted over the years and the differences of expectations on swingers clubs, event hosts, and public facing …

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