What We Do

Since 1997 John has been designing, managing and operating what are commonly known as “swinger” clubs. Together, John and his wife Jackie have coached and counseled countless thousands in deciding if the open lifestyle is right for them. They help others by sharing their personal experiences and knowledge from what they have seen in the club. Today, the Melfi’s share their time developing new clubs, coaching couples and singles, writing and serving as experts in the media.


Our mission is to inform, educate and provide conversation for anyone interested in a more open relationship with their partner. To further foster a community of open minded, sexually motivated adults who want to experiment in love and sex.

It’s hard to put into words what the melfi’s have done for my marriage. Its not the sex that made the impact it was the communication and shared vulnerability that not only helped my marriage but freed me to be more confident and open,

— Craig Henson, Member


  • 20% of adults WORLD WIDE admit to experiencing a threesome at least once. source: www.thedatereport.com
  • The majority of members at “swingers clubs” go to just watch. (And we think thats awesome)
  • In the 30 to 39 age range, 69 percent of men report having given a woman oral sex, while only 59 percent of women have.
  • 64 to 72 percent of women in the same age range reporting masturbating.
  • The National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior survey found that men in their 50s are having more sex than teenage males.
  • Just a decade ago, only 25% of women reported experiencing orgasm as a result of intercourse. In recent years, this number has risen to about 45%. In contrast, over 80% of women report experiencing orgasm though oral seSed fermentum eget velit at eleifend. Donec volutpat est a felis pulvinar.

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