John MelfiWhat’s the big deal about boundaries one might say? Well, it could lead to a disaster in the start of your open relationship before it even begins. Although setting boundaries may seem simple on the...
John MelfiEver had a time where you weren’t quite “feeling it” with a new play partner? Or maybe the other way around where they weren’t too excited to be with you? So how do we navigate...
John MelfiWe talk a lot about the deep emotional side of swinging – jealousy, fear, etc., so today we’d go the opposite direction and talk about the fun and lighter side of swinging and being in...
John & JackieYou’re into what?!? You know what you’re doing is wrong, RIGHT? Yes, that could be one of the knee jerk responses you could face if you come out as being in open relationships. Thus, it’s...
John & JackieAt our colette lifestyle clubs, we’re starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term “swinger” and that encompassed...
John & JackieWe talk about a couple of important things in this video. We started with the popular male topic of what to do if you can’t get or stay hard (we share a few solutions), but...
John & JackieWhen people think Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), many of them think about the exciting and juicy non-monogamy part where you get to have sex with multiple partners. Lots of it. A lot of the time. But...
John & JackieWe had a comment/question from a couple in an open relationship where the wife is having a much easier time finding play partners than the husband, which led him to ask the question: How do...
John & JackieOk so you’re interested in this consensual non-monogamy thing, but how do you tell your partner about it? How do you approach the topic and introduce them to CNM without freaking them out?! Watch this...
John & JackieA couple asked us the other day if it’s bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad? Let’s dive into this rabbit...
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
