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Fear and Esteem in Open Relationships – Part 1

By April 17, 2018 April 28th, 2018 Swing Lifestyle Videos

How do our fears relate to our self-esteem and society’s view on the swinger lifestyle?

What if your partner is with someone else? Are you afraid they will leave you? That they’re better than you and your partner will want to spend more time with them?

Do those fears make you feel like you’re not worthy to be with your partner? How do we address that?

When you’re done watching this video, be sure to catch Part 2 HERE!

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  • Jim says:

    My wife and I are new to the LS, we have chosen to only soft swap at this time. A week ago we had our first girl /girl experience as a couple. My emotional system flipped out as a husband and the emotional ride has about shut me down. I know I’m not a good side line coach for my wife and don’t know how to fix it. When these times come on me some how your messages come up in my email and it helps greatly in reducing the anxiety.

  • Lynn Moorhead says:

    I always look forward to each new video or article you guys post, as they are always filled with insightful information.

    I also think that most of what you guys share applies to EVERY relationship out there, whether swingers or not, and really love seeing things you guys have to share.

    Lynn M.

  • “The best way out is always through.”
    Robert Frost

    Another great Vblog Jackie/John! Looking forward to Part 2.

  • Martin says:

    Absolutely loved this video, going through a divorce after being separated for two years as well as splitting from a girlfriend of 10 months, as well as self healing on childhood experiences and my god, fear and low self esteem is right up there, regardless of relationship types, monogamous v non monogamous… Great advice to be self aware and to communicate your way through it, keep up the good work with great videos 😊👍

  • Fay says:

    I want to know how you and what steps you took to get through that what processes did you go through it’s hard for me to let my husband go be with another woman. And he can’t be truthful with her regarding me. And he says that that’s the only way that he can date another woman outside of the swinging lifestyle

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