As owners of lifestyle clubs, we hear all the common complaints from members about single guys, so we figured we make a video and share some things NOT to do as a single male at swingers clubs. AVOID these at all costs if you want to connect and play well with others!
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John and Jackie Melfi are married swingers and in an open relationship. They were featured in an ABC News Nightline special report “Getting ‘Naughty in N’Awlins’: Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention” and are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in Dallas, New Orleans, Houston, and Austin and the award-winning blog Openlove101.com with over 20 years of combined experience in open relationships and coaching thousands of couples.
I have been a couple and a single Male. As a single Male always approach with both parties present. Ask the Male if it’s ok for her to dance. Most of the time he will say it’s up to her. Be a gentleman when on the floor. She will respect you for that.i have become good friends with couples because I have done that. I have even had guy come to me. After they turned me away and apologized. Because they have had so many other guy be disrespectful they were expecting more of the same. To the point that, I have been the first single Male they have been with.