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First Time Swinger Club Expectations and Boundaries – Podcast Episode #4

It can be scary and nerve-wracking going to a swingers club for the first time. It can also be very exciting! Just be sure to have the right set of expectations and boundaries before going in, which is what we talk about in this episode.

Listen to the episode here or on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Spotify, or on your favorite podcast platform!

For your listening convenience, the podcast is the audio from this YouTube video:

So whether you’re watching or listening (or both), please enjoy and let us know what you think!

3 Comments

  • Jeannine says:

    Very helpful. I’m single and wanting to visit on one of the Wednesday nights. Still working through setting my boundaries and expectations so have not yet visited. I’m thinking it’s not much different. Having a plan on what you’re comfortable with or not. I like the idea of just going and observing first … the trial run so to speak.

  • John says:

    Instead of a “practice night” we used to do “meet and greet”‘s — (the woman who organized them moved away, so we’re not doing them now.) We’d do a restaurant takeover, and have a big dinner with a mix of swingers and newbies. It’s a safer, gentler toe in the water experience for the newbies because there’s no expectation of sex, and no place to do it without getting in the cars and going elsewhere. Strictly a night of great conversations….

    The main thing is having someone who’s willing to set it all up, and develop a significant collection of newbies who want to go.

    As to expectations and boundaries, in addition to managing your own, be prepared to meet other couples who have theirs. Some people want to always be in the same room, others never the same room, stuff like that. The one my wife really hates is the “If you want me your wife has to do him” requirement.

    — J.S.

  • Samantha Bain says:

    Hi guys! So thank you for taking the time to make these videos and help put newbies like me a little more at ease. I will be trying this for the first time very soon I hope. When I hear the phrase swinger clubs it scares me a little because I have nothing to offer in exchange. I am a single woman and wanting to explore my sexuality that I have been suppressing for way too long. Will I be judged negatively for being single? I don’t know what to expect or if this is the correct route for me to take for my first experience. I was hoping to attend an event this evening I found happening near me but I am still a little anxious. Any advice from you guys would be appreciated! Thanks again for the great blogs and videos!

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