Is The Swingers’ Lifestyle Male-Driven?

We heard some comments lately that the swinger lifestyle may be dominated by males. Are they really the ones doing the leading or encouraging women to explore the lifestyle? Is this just a boys’ club?

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5 Comments

  • Oh my, my, MY!!! John and Jackie, can I PLEASE post this and a transcript of the 8-minute conversation on this subject to my blog!? I hear this preconceived “hesitancy and doubt” about the lifestyle ALL THE TIME from males and females not in the lifestyle! May I link, make a transcript — if you guys don’t already have one to download? — and post this to my blog? I have many followers that for various reasons do not stream videos on their device; that’s why I ask about a transcript.

    Thanks! (warm big smile)

  • Beth says:

    I rarely listen to podcasts about the lifestyle or read other blogger’s articles because I don’t want to be influenced by what others are saying in my own blog, but I saw this in my email and was curious to hear what you had to say. First of all, I love the thoughtfulness behind the podcast. I love the way you choose your words so carefully and eloquently. What I wanted to add was that my husband has always said, “Men bring their wives to the club and women bring them back there after.” I agree 100% with what you said, it’s very true.

    It will be hard to resist listening to more!
    Beth

  • Travis Brown says:

    I enjoy your videos. My wife and I are pretty new at this and we have had a couple of. It so great situations in the past. You’re “Threesome” videos really broke it down to me and has helped. I’m going to share them with her and really work to improve our communication with each other.

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