Visiting Swinger Clubs and Dealing With Peer Pressure

We received a wonderful message and question from a reader:

The videos you guys posted have changed my life. I feel normal and I appreciate you guys very much. Now colette is the only place we feel comfortable going to as a newbie.

I also don’t want to give off the wrong signals. We’re looking for a threesome or for a girlfriend to have fun with. Do we fit in at your place? We’re excited to experience new things but want to be appropriate.

Thank you so much for your reply as we can definitely use some advice!

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3 Comments

  • Kennneth says:

    Hi Jackie and John! I’ve really appreciated your instructional videos on swinging and swinging clubs. I’ve learned a lot so far and like your free-flowing and engaging style. Now to my question – We live in the New England area of the country -and wonder if you can recommend any swinger clubs here? I’m friends with a couple who have tried a few in the Boston area but found them to be a bit clannish and unwelcoming. Do you know of any that embody the free-flowing spirit of your clubs? Since we live in central Maine, would you know of any in our state? Or perhaps is there a site to check out that can be trusted to honestly describe such venues?

  • Erik says:

    Is there a resource I can use to know where to meet others? New to all this. Recently separated. Exploring my options.

    • Jackie Melfi says:

      Hi Erik,
      You can always check out our club colette (https://coletteclubs.com/) if you are in the area. Another great way to meet others is by joining any number of the adult social sites, a quick google search will put you in touch with several options.

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