John MelfiIn this episode, we were guests of the wonderful Wanderlust Swingers Podcast hosted by Cate & Darrell. The swinging lifestyle often comes with a certain amount of evolution and shame, so we discuss how it...
John & JackieFrom our experience in the lifestyle, we feel that there are 3 stages or types of consensual non monogamous relationships and how your relationship can progress through all three or just comfortably stay within one....
John & JackieWhat happens when the fear of losing our partner keeps us from opening up a relationship? It’s easy to let the danger of allowing past relationships/history to define your current union. After all, you may...
John & JackieWe’re kicking off the New Year with some fun (and serious) discussions here. In our special interview with Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com, we dive into kink and BDSM, while also covering sexual trauma, honesty,...
John & JackieFear is an inevitable part of life and the lifestyle, so what can we do to fight fear in our relationships? It’s a pretty simple solution, but takes a bit to pinpoint exactly what you’re...
John & JackieWe’re at the end of the series and by now you’ve set your boundaries before going out, went on your date or to your party/club, and now it’s all over. Or is it? What do...
John & JackieOk now it’s play time, but do you do it separately or together with your partner? What situations would you want to be in the same room playing together (or separately) or playing in different...
John & JackieOk so you’re ready to go out to a club or party where you have the opportunity to play. What should you do beforehand when it comes to rules and boundaries? It’s establishing what you’re...
John & JackieHopefully by now in our Rules & Boundaries series that you have some created together with your partner. But what do you do if/when your boundaries get pushed or broken by a couple you’re playing...
John & JackieOne of THE MOST IMPORTANT places to start if you’re considering an open relationship is going over the rules and boundaries with your partner. If you don’t, you’re going to inevitably encounter unnecessary drama, problems,...
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
