Samia Mounts“If you’re happy, I’m happy.” That’s compersion in a nutshell. If you’ve never heard the term before, you’re not alone. You won’t find it in any dictionary, and the only people who are familiar with...
Jackie MelfiGiddy like a schoolgirl and honored at the same time for ASN Lifestyle Magazine to have chosen me as one of the top influential women in the lifestyle. It all started a few years ago...
Jackie MelfiUnless you’ve been living under a rock somewhere you’ve no doubt seen the recent Playboy interview with actor Thomas Middleditch and his revelation that he and his wife Mollie are in the “swinger lifestyle,” as...
John & JackieYou always hear that communication is one of the big keys to a successful relationship. But what does communication look or sound like? Today we’re going through some examples and giving you some tips on...
Samia MountsWhen John and Jackie Melfi invited me to be their guest at this year’s Naughty In N’awlins, an annual swingers’ convention that happens every summer in New Orleans, I was really excited and grateful. For...
John & JackieWhen it comes to consent, what’s usually discussed is getting consent from the person with whom you would like to have a physical interaction. What’s not talked about as much is giving consent to your...
Samia MountsI’m an openly polyamorous woman, and whenever I talk about my way of conducting romantic and sexual relationships with people who are used to monogamy, one of the most common arguments I get goes something...
John & JackieWant to have your cake and eat it too? Weeeeell, it takes two to tango. Buuuuuuut, you can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. Aaannnnnnnd, that’s enough old proverbs (for...
John & JackieWe also have a second video today, but not of the usual about swinger relationships, open relationships, or polyamorous relationships. But it is a video about relationships. It’s about my relationship with my mom. And...
Jackie MelfiIn 2007 my father died. A shocking “here one day, gone the next” kind of death and it shook me to my core. I began to think about my own mortality and that awakening taught...
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
