This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3.

In today’s Part 4, we’re going to talk about playing separately versus together.

Playing together would include something like having a threesome where you’re both in the experience. On the other hand, playing separately would include something like being in separate rooms where your partner is in an experience with another couple and you’re not involved at all.

Often times not being involved (playing separately) can create a lot of emotion, so it’s very important to have boundaries set when it comes to the subject of are you going to play together or separately with your partner.