John & JackieOne of the most common questions that we get from men is about how to deal with performance anxiety when it comes to playing in the lifestyle. How do you stay hard when you have...
John & JackieI remember the time when I gathered in a room of female monogamists to talk about the release of my book “Swingers Lifestyle: The Questions You are Afraid to Ask”. How would these traditional wives...
John & JackieWe read an article on the top 30 signs of a relationship comfort zone and we discuss what we think. How many of these have you hit with your partner? 1. Not wearing make-up 2....
John & JackieSo it’s been several months now in August and you may have your playdates still on hold. Then what can you do at this point if others aren’t dating? Instead of focusing on the things...
Jackie MelfiFirst time having a threesome with your partner? Worried or nervous about how you’re going to react to seeing them with someone else? We know what that’s like because we’ve been in your shoes. In...
Jackie Melfi“How do you not lose intimacy in your relationship if you are giving so much intimacy to others?” That is the great question from our community that we’ll be answering. Is intimacy limited? Does giving...
Jackie MelfiOpen relationship dating can be stressful and nerve wrecking if you don’t have a general framework. That’s where the easy 3 Ps Approach comes into play to help you make your swinger lifestyle date a...
Jackie MelfiToday is Part 2 continuation of our conversation from last week about some myths (and realities) from one of our favorite books in our relationship library – “The Ethical Slut” by Janet W. Hardy and...
Jackie MelfiToday we get to discuss some myths (and realities) from one of our favorite books in our relationship library – “The Ethical Slut” by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton. Do any these sound familiar...
John & JackieJackie Melfi gets interviewed on The Kinky Koach & Her Silver Fox podcast about dealing with your kids and how (if you want) to tell them that you’re in the lifestyle. If you’re struggling with...
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
