Dealing With Fear in Open Relationships

The other day we did some coaching for a couple who wanted some help with their open relationship. They had finally found a third person who was interesting and attractive to both of them and...

Openlove101 Celebrates 6 Years

Openlove101 turns 6 years old this month! Woo hoo! As John and I continue to spread our message in 2021 and beyond, we can’t help but look back at how far we’ve come. I mean...

Why We Shouldn’t Want to Be Our Partner’s Everything

Why shouldn’t we want to be our partner’s everything? I mean isn’t that what we are all taught is supposed to happen when we find our “soul mate?” We will be their everything and they...

Kink, BDSM, Sexual Trauma, Honesty, and more! – Podcast Episode #23

We’re kicking off the New Year with some fun (and serious) discussions here. In our special interview with Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com, we dive into kink and BDSM, while also covering sexual trauma, honesty,...

Antidote to Fear – Podcast Episode #22

Fear is an inevitable part of life and the lifestyle, so what can we do to fight fear in our relationships? It’s a pretty simple solution, but takes a bit to pinpoint exactly what you’re...

5 Benefits Of An Open Relationship

Have you ever wondered what it is that makes being in a consensually non monogamous, swinger, open minded, or poly relationship so great? Why are one in five Americans engaging in consensual non monogamous relationships?...

Importance of Honesty in Open Relationships

Rules and Boundaries Part 5 of 5 – Podcast Episode #21

We’re at the end of the series and by now you’ve set your boundaries before going out, went on your date or to your party/club, and now it’s all over. Or is it? What do...

Rules and Boundaries Part 4 of 5 – Podcast Episode #20

Ok now it’s play time, but do you do it separately or together with your partner? What situations would you want to be in the same room playing together (or separately) or playing in different...

Rules and Boundaries Part 3 of 5 – Podcast Episode #19

Ok so you’re ready to go out to a club or party where you have the opportunity to play. What should you do beforehand when it comes to rules and boundaries? It’s establishing what you’re...