John & JackieThe definitions of monogamy and non-monogamy might be straightforward, but how people interpret them isn’t. What counts as cheating? Are there grey areas? J and Angie from Average Swingers join us to discuss Tracey Cox’s...
John MelfiToday we dive deep into two questions we got asked by our viewers: #1 – What’s the biggest challenge of being in an open relationship? Let’s start by addressing the most substantial challenge, and...
John & JackieToday we bring you another Q&A session with John and Jackie on all things open love. Tuning in, you’ll hear the answers to an array of burning questions from people living the open love lifestyle...
John & JackieMonogamy is the relationship model that is drilled into most people from a young age, and while it may work for some, there are other models that work better for others. In today’s episode, we...
John & JackieMore and more people are talking about attachment theory these days, but many of those conversations focus on how we can cultivate secure monogamous relationships. What if you’re looking to create secure, happy attachments with...
John MelfiEver had one of those things you just started doing for one reason or another and didn’t think much of it? And then one day all of a sudden it turns into this incredible “thing”...
John MelfiToday we will be doing something a little different in our video. I (Jackie Melfi) will be doing a short interview with John Melfi, owner of colette clubs in Dallas, Houston, NOLA, and Austin. Part...
John MelfiOne of our lovely commenters on YouTube asked us this curious question: Being in the lifestyle, do I have to give blowjobs? It may seem like a peculiar question at first, but there’s some background...
John MelfiAhh yes good old resentment. I’m sure you’ve encountered this at some point in life and possibly in your relationship as well. One of the unfortunate consequences of holding onto resentment is that it blocks...
John MelfiHave you ever started a conversation about your relationship in a civil and cordial manner… And then things quickly took a turn for the worst and escalated to the point of anger and maybe bad...
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
