We can’t believe it’s the Annual Lifestyle Awards again and we’d LOVE your support! It would mean the world to us if you were to vote and help us represent the lifestyle community for you this year. Your voice and action helps re-enforce what we do and gives us so much encouragement and love to …
Have you ever felt judged as a swinger? It can be harsh what people think about you, whether it has to do with the lifestyle, relationships, or anything! We may or may not be able to change how other people feel about us, but what have YOU decided to feel about yourself? Join the discussion! …
Ever been afraid to be honest to your partner about your needs and wants because you’re afraid to hurt their feelings, upset them, have them get mad at you, or anything else insane like that?? What about being honest about your car seat? I know, it’s crazy! It can be the smallest or strangest thing, …
What is swinging? More importantly, what are the foundational building blocks that support swinging? It’s critical to have these in place to increase your chances of having positive experiences with your partner when it comes to exploring the swinger lifestyle. John & Jackieopenlove101.com
We have a reader today who noticed their high highs and low lows in the lifestyle. They emailed in to us: I was wondering if you have any advice to smooth out the intense emotions. Joy, passion, desire, guilt, exhilaration, jealousy, ecstasy, and doubt all seem to come in such concentrated doses with our new …
Jackie: Have you ever had an argument with your partner? John: *chuckles* Jackie: Why are you laughing?!? Lol the guys here will understand Jackie’s rhetorical question and John’s response. Today’s video is about arguments and defusing them with your partner! Set aside that fear, anger, fault, and more and turn it into a constructive opportunity …
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We continue the conversation from Part 1 about fear and esteem. Fear can sometimes do things like shut us down and prevent us from having experiences, joy and pleasure, and more. What is fear stopping you from doing?! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
Hey Jackie, I ran across this website after doing some research into the lifestyle. I identified with your upbringing and story so closely, and my husband of seven years and I have finally come to the realization that we’ve been operating under the constraints of what and how we’re “supposed” to be living, and not …
Ask John & Jackie: Transitioning To An Open Relationship and Overcoming Jealousy Read More »
How do our fears relate to our self-esteem and society’s view on the swinger lifestyle? What if your partner is with someone else? Are you afraid they will leave you? That they’re better than you and your partner will want to spend more time with them? Do those fears make you feel like you’re not …
Today we are with our special guest Kara, lifestyle club manager of colette Houston! And we’re having a conversation about being empathetic about yourself. How so? Often times a couple may be contemplating about getting into the swinger lifestyle and if they come up against an obstacle, they already begin to think that the lifestyle …
Swingers Lifestyle – Self Empathy and Giving Yourself a Break Read More »
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