Before I get into the meat of this article, I need to dismiss one of the biggest myths about open relationships so there is no confusion: Being “open” doesn’t just mean sex, it means opening up everything in the marriage. For example, you’ve got to open your mind to deeper communication. Have those talks about
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Excerpt from my diary: John was up early (big surprise). He had a 7:00 am interview with an English production company looking to push the same ol’ song and dance storyline—hot young couples trying out swinging for the first time. While I understand from a ratings and drama fueled motive why the media uses this
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One of the things I love about my open non-monogamous relationship with Jackie is our dating life. I love it when Jackie tells me about her dates. I love seeing her happy and having a good time and hearing about her experiencing new and different things… experiencing new people. And Jackie feels the same way
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I knew at the start of this year’s NIN (Naughty in N’awlins) convention that I would be writing about my experience. I knew I would write about the NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom) parade, the seminars, the experts, the themed parties, the ALA (Annual Lifestyle Awards) ceremony, and all the amazing couples and singles
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Jackie MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN “This Is Life” with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans,
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“I am completely new, but my first experience was, to say the least, a bit unnerving. While I did notice some absolutely respectful single men who approached me and my partner with manners and good conversation, there were also the other types. One such individual walked up and put his arm around me, immediately complimenting
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I’m angry. Yes, I’m Included in the long list of people who’ve been touched without permission. But that’s not what makes me angry. What makes me angry is this victimization that takes hold whenever a brave soul has finally had enough and has stepped forward; someone (male or female) who isn’t afraid to be the
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One day (while avoiding work…this is an article on responsibility after all), I found myself aimlessly scrolling through Facebook. I came across a video by actor Will Smith. Smith, I would soon learn, has quite a collection of brief, yet thought-provoking videos. The one which captured my attention on that particular day was about fault
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Anyone who follows John and me, know we recently returned from a phenomenal adventure in Tanzania. We joined 15 other hikers on a vegan fueled climb to the top of Mount Kilimanjaro! Ever since we had traveled to Tanzania years ago and participated in a brief hike up this mountain, we had told ourselves we
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It’s almost Valentine’s Day! It’s that special day set aside every February to celebrate the love we feel towards our partner or anyone who brings love into our life. As this special day quickly approaches, I can’t help but start contemplating what to get John this year. When I say get, I usually mean purchase.
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
