Jackie Melfi

John and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report "Getting Naughty In N'awlins", Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN "This Is Life" with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, Dallas, Houston, and Austin. With over 20 years of combined experience, this powerhouse couple coaches thousands of singles and couples through their award winning blog Openlove101.com.

Interview With A Real Life Open Relationship Couple: Michael & Emily

How was swinging introduced in your relationship? Who was the first partner to bring up the topic? Michael is guilty of luring Emily into the lifestyle. He took her to wild, hedonistic dance parties in the first couple of days of our relationship. He knew it would be fun. We both loved hot and loud …

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Open Relationship Advice from 19 Experts (World Love Summit)

Get some behind-the-scenes insight when we interviewed 19 lifestyle experts for their best open relationship advice for the World Love Summit online conference. It was amazing to absorb the knowledge and learning lessons from all these individuals – and we had a kick doing it. We’ll talk about our biggest takeaway from the experience, along …

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Threesomes: How Do You Handle Watching Your Partner

First time having a threesome with your partner? Worried or nervous about how you’re going to react to seeing them with someone else? We know what that’s like because we’ve been in your shoes. In this video, we explain how we felt having a threesome with each other as a couple for the first time. …

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The World Love Summit: What I learned from 19 lifestyle experts

Almost seven years ago, I ran full speed ahead into the world of consensual non-monogamy and never looked back. With the support of my husband and my own drive, I charged into this new world devouring everything in my path. I read books with titles like, “The Ethical Slut” and “Sex at Dawn.” I dug …

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C.O.R.E. (Confidence Ownership Responsibility Exuberance)

Flip through the pages of any fitness magazine and you’ll find articles touting the praises of strengthening our core through exercise. Keeping our core muscles (pelvis, back, and abdomen) strong means we’ll have an easier time performing physical activities. I know for me, whenever I focus on these core muscles, my balance is better, my …

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