John & JackieAt our colette lifestyle clubs, we’re starting to see more and more people with diverse desires (and hence labels) in their open relationship. Many years ago, it was just the term “swinger” and that encompassed...
John & JackieWhen people think Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM), many of them think about the exciting and juicy non-monogamy part where you get to have sex with multiple partners. Lots of it. A lot of the time. But...
Jackie MelfiJohn and I recently found ourselves discussing how much we have progressed as a couple. How we’ve pushed ourselves to respond differently to issues that in the past would have produced self destructive reactions. How...
Jackie MelfiImagine you’re driving in your car. You aren’t in any hurry nor do you have any schedule you’re following. Just a relaxing day out running errands. You’ve got a good job, a nice car, and...
John & JackieA couple asked us the other day if it’s bad to fantasize about someone else while being intimate with your partner. Is that wrong? Is it cheating? Is it bad? Let’s dive into this rabbit...
John & JackieThe other day we did some coaching for a couple who wanted some help with their open relationship. They had finally found a third person who was interesting and attractive to both of them and...
Jackie MelfiOpenlove101 turns 6 years old this month! Woo hoo! As John and I continue to spread our message in 2021 and beyond, we can’t help but look back at how far we’ve come. I mean...
Jackie MelfiWhy shouldn’t we want to be our partner’s everything? I mean isn’t that what we are all taught is supposed to happen when we find our “soul mate?” We will be their everything and they...
John & JackieWe’re kicking off the New Year with some fun (and serious) discussions here. In our special interview with Charlie and Arienne of SexBecause.com, we dive into kink and BDSM, while also covering sexual trauma, honesty,...
John & JackieFear is an inevitable part of life and the lifestyle, so what can we do to fight fear in our relationships? It’s a pretty simple solution, but takes a bit to pinpoint exactly what you’re...
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