John & JackieOk so you’re ready to go out to a club or party where you have the opportunity to play. What should you do beforehand when it comes to rules and boundaries? It’s establishing what you’re...
John & JackieHopefully by now in our Rules & Boundaries series that you have some created together with your partner. But what do you do if/when your boundaries get pushed or broken by a couple you’re playing...
John & JackieOne of THE MOST IMPORTANT places to start if you’re considering an open relationship is going over the rules and boundaries with your partner. If you don’t, you’re going to inevitably encounter unnecessary drama, problems,...
John & JackieSeems like we always talk about Jackie’s journey through fear, but this time John has the floor on this podcast to share HIS story of what fears he had to encounter in this lifestyle and...
John & JackieI remember the time when I gathered in a room of female monogamists to talk about the release of my book “Swingers Lifestyle: The Questions You are Afraid to Ask”. How would these traditional wives...
John & JackieWe read an article on the top 30 signs of a relationship comfort zone and we discuss what we think. How many of these have you hit with your partner? 1. Not wearing make-up 2....
Jackie Melfi“I’ll never figure out this “swinging” lifestyle!” This phrase came billowing out of my mouth through tears and a host of fears, almost a decade ago. For those who’ve followed Openlove101 these past few years,...
Jackie MelfiFirst time having a threesome with your partner? Worried or nervous about how you’re going to react to seeing them with someone else? We know what that’s like because we’ve been in your shoes. In...
Jackie Melfi“How do you not lose intimacy in your relationship if you are giving so much intimacy to others?” That is the great question from our community that we’ll be answering. Is intimacy limited? Does giving...
Jackie MelfiIn this video, we answer one of your questions posted in the YouTube comments in one of our videos: What about the folks you’re dating? Do they know about your relationship and how do they...
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
