How to Handle a Bad Swinging Experience
John & JackieSo what do you do when you have a bad swinging experience? This can be at a club or a party or even on a date. How do you handle it?
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Your Favorite Swinging Lifestyle Blog Turns 3
Jackie MelfiThree years ago, John and I were in Jamaica. I remember it like it was yesterday. We had scheduled a trip to Hedonism II, but the trip overlapped our debut of a brand new site...
Key Life Lessons We Learned From Our Swinging Relationship
John & JackieHow does being in the swinger lifestyle benefit beyond just relationships? Does it help in other areas of your life? When we think about it, here are a couple of powerful ways that we approach...
Swinging Lifestyle Benefits for Curious Monogamists
John & JackieMarried women in traditional monogamous relationships were curious and wanted to talk to me about the swinging lifestyle?? After writing her book “Swingers’ Lifestyle: The Questions You Are Afraid to Ask“, Jackie spoke to a...
How My Swinging Marriage Changed My Views About Sex And Relationships
Jackie MelfiMy husband and I were recently asked how we keep our relationship special. What is it that we do to differentiate our marriage from our other encounters—if we’re going on dates, holding hands, kissing, or...
From Anger to Fear to Gratitude
Jackie MelfiMy vanilla friend (non-swinger) Jan (not her real name) called me not too long ago. She was upset about an incident that happened the previous evening. She and her spouse were attending a get together...
Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 5
John & JackieThis is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, and Part 4. In today’s final Part...
Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 4
John & JackieThis is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3. In today’s Part 4, we’re...
Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 3
John & JackieThis is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1 and then Part 2. In today’s Part 3, we’re going to...
Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 2
John & JackieThis is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first video, here’s the link to Part 1. In this Part 2 video, we’re going to talk...