Key Benefits of Having an Open Relationship

Dealing with trust issues in an open relationship

The Importance of Balance in Your Open Relationship

One of the things I learned in my open relationship with John is that relationships are about balance. An understanding that without this balance the “load” becomes a struggle as you try to keep it...

How to Rock Your Open Relationship Like a Celebrity

So now you and your significant other have decided to give the swingers lifestyle or open relationship a go. Well, it appears you will be in good, if not famous company. Just like I wrote...

What Can Swingers Learn From Jada & Will Smith

“You have to trust who you’re with.” These were the powerful yet seemingly obvious words of wisdom from Jada Pinkett Smith in her recent interview on The Howard Stern Show on SiriusXM when talking about...

Killing Jealousy and Fear is Easy as 1-2-3 in the Swinger Lifestyle

Someone in the swinger lifestyle recently asked me, “How do you not get jealous?” Well, sometimes I have been. Sometimes my fear becomes greater than my trust. Because to me, that’s what jealousy really is…fear!...

What is Compersion?

Relationships With Options

One of the biggest truths I learned when introduced to the swinging/open lifestyle was that relationships are about options. That traditional monogamy isn’t the only way to a healthy, loving, committed way in which to...

Six Thoughtful Ways to Show Your Partner How Much You Love Them

If your looking for some entertaining and special ways to show your partner just how important they are to you and how much you value being together, then why not show it by giving them...

Working Past Uncomfortable Feelings Through Communication