Rules and Boundaries Part 5 of 5 – Podcast Episode #21
John & JackieWe’re at the end of the series and by now you’ve set your boundaries before going out, went on your date or to your party/club, and now it’s all over. Or is it? What do...
Rules and Boundaries Part 4 of 5 – Podcast Episode #20
John & JackieOk now it’s play time, but do you do it separately or together with your partner? What situations would you want to be in the same room playing together (or separately) or playing in different...
Rules and Boundaries Part 3 of 5 – Podcast Episode #19
John & JackieOk so you’re ready to go out to a club or party where you have the opportunity to play. What should you do beforehand when it comes to rules and boundaries? It’s establishing what you’re...
Rules and Boundaries Part 2 of 5 – Podcast Episode #18
John & JackieHopefully by now in our Rules & Boundaries series that you have some created together with your partner. But what do you do if/when your boundaries get pushed or broken by a couple you’re playing...
Rules and Boundaries Part 1 of 5 – Podcast Episode #17
John & JackieOne of THE MOST IMPORTANT places to start if you’re considering an open relationship is going over the rules and boundaries with your partner. If you don’t, you’re going to inevitably encounter unnecessary drama, problems,...
How John Faced His Lifestyle Fears – Podcast Episode #16
John & JackieSeems like we always talk about Jackie’s journey through fear, but this time John has the floor on this podcast to share HIS story of what fears he had to encounter in this lifestyle and...
Talking to Female Monogamists – Podcast Episode #14
John & JackieI remember the time when I gathered in a room of female monogamists to talk about the release of my book “Swingers Lifestyle: The Questions You are Afraid to Ask”. How would these traditional wives...
30 Signs Your Open Relationship Hit the Comfort Zone – Podcast Episode #13
John & JackieWe read an article on the top 30 signs of a relationship comfort zone and we discuss what we think. How many of these have you hit with your partner? 1. Not wearing make-up 2....
5 Lessons From Jealousy To Compersion
Jackie Melfi“I’ll never figure out this “swinging” lifestyle!” This phrase came billowing out of my mouth through tears and a host of fears, almost a decade ago. For those who’ve followed Openlove101 these past few years,...