Being Judged as a Swinger
John & JackieHave you ever felt judged as a swinger? It can be harsh what people think about you, whether it has to do with the lifestyle, relationships, or anything! We may or may not be able...
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Swinging Lifestyle: Fear of Being Honest
John & JackieEver been afraid to be honest to your partner about your needs and wants because you’re afraid to hurt their feelings, upset them, have them get mad at you, or anything else insane like that??...
Definition of Swinging
John & JackieWhat is swinging? More importantly, what are the foundational building blocks that support swinging? It’s critical to have these in place to increase your chances of having positive experiences with your partner when it comes...
Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows
John & JackieWe have a reader today who noticed their high highs and low lows in the lifestyle. They emailed in to us: I was wondering if you have any advice to smooth out the intense emotions....
Swinging Relationship Issues: Defusing Arguments
John & JackieJackie: Have you ever had an argument with your partner? John: *chuckles* Jackie: Why are you laughing?!? Lol the guys here will understand Jackie’s rhetorical question and John’s response. Today’s video is about arguments and...
Fear and Esteem in Open Relationships – Part 2
John & JackieWe continue the conversation from Part 1 about fear and esteem. Fear can sometimes do things like shut us down and prevent us from having experiences, joy and pleasure, and more. What is fear stopping...
Fear and Esteem in Open Relationships – Part 1
John & JackieHow do our fears relate to our self-esteem and society’s view on the swinger lifestyle? What if your partner is with someone else? Are you afraid they will leave you? That they’re better than you...
Swingers Lifestyle – Self Empathy and Giving Yourself a Break
John & JackieToday we are with our special guest Kara, lifestyle club manager of colette Houston! And we’re having a conversation about being empathetic about yourself. How so? Often times a couple may be contemplating about getting...
How Different Cultures Embrace Swinging Lifestyle
John & JackieIn this video, we respond to the question “You guys travel a lot. How is your experience with swingers outside the United States?”
Why You Should Consider the Swingers Lifestyle
John & JackieWhat are some reasons why someone might want to get into the swingers lifestyle? If you’re on the fence about having this sort of relationship, exploring your options, or just in the information collecting stage...